Phuket......I am ready to come.....

 

 

Finally, I can now take a rest and have a great holiday at Phuket........what a lovely place for a relaxing holiday.......hahaha...Can't believe that my dream is really coming true now.....>...<3...(Nice Sunshine + Romantic Sunset + A Glass of Freezing Wine + Beautiful Private Beach + Hot Bikinis + 5 stars resort hotel + Business Class return flight = Phuket @ Thailand
Wow......what a nice and marvelous dream)...........haha......everything can just be concluded as.....Dream a dream and make the dream come true....

life is cool and amazing....all we have to do is just believe in what you are believing in....dream a dream you can do is trust your dream.....and then get the dream come true........no worries....and be happy..........

Bad times are just making the good times go better....sad ones are just making up the glad ones to be happier......hard things are just making the ordinary things get easier.........challenging goals are just making our lives go more and more colourful...........nothing is impossible.....hahaha......life is just all about living in the lalaland......

Phuket..

 

Phuket......

 

Phuket........

 

Phuket............

 

蔡旻佑 - 走

走

詞：姜憶萱
曲：張義欣

就怕天黑得太快 來不及把寂寞給藏起來
我想你 很想你 想念變成了習慣
不知不覺對你依賴

直到現在才明白 原來愛需要大聲說出來
這一次 我多想 用盡全力抱緊你
搶救我們愛的危機

走 如果你真的想要走
消失在我過的生活 我沒有 快樂的理由
走 可不可以你不要走
愛怎麼說散就算了
告訴我 你不會捨得

直到現在才明白 原來愛需要大聲說出來
這一次 我多想 用盡全力抱緊你
搶救我們愛的危機

走 如果你真的想要走
消失在我過的生活 我沒有 快樂的理由
走 可不可以你不要走
愛怎麼說散就算了
告訴我 你不會捨得

ha~ 走 如果你真的想要走
我放下一切的擁有 陪你走 到任何盡頭
走 要走就我們一起走
別掉下孤單的一個
別沒收 幸福的快樂

I Don't Understand you.... 我不懂你

我不懂你
作曲：ALEX LUNG
填詞：王仲傑
編曲：杜自持
監製：杜自持

事到如今 我學識接受
是你要自我與自由
這是你所有
#是我已獲得足夠
滿足你的要求
就求你別提及分手
就我所知
終有日看懂情人方內疚
但是愛不全是佔有
誰會敷我的傷口#
從來不懂你嗎 為何尚要牽掛
但我不敢問話 未夠膽調查
你似未歸家
能留低一吻嗎
尢其是這十數月不知你在哪
還未曾化 講大話
還是真的無瑕
讓我知可以嗎

repeat #
從來不懂你嗎 為何尚要牽掛
但我不敢問話 未夠膽調查
你似未歸家
能留低一吻嗎
尢其是這十數月不知你在哪
還未曾化 講大話
如果真的無瑕
沒法解釋嗎
從頭學習愛人 如何去守我本份
讓你知再會愛下去
這次是我可劫後重生

從前不懂你嗎 為何我覺可怕
但我不敢問話 未夠膽調查
我會否很差
能和好相處嗎
用自信心相信你便不會再害怕
還未明嗎 好情人
無非取得平衡
是我這方法嗎

二人世界

二人世界
作曲：牧野信博
填詞：張美賢
編曲：杜自持
監製：杜自持

嘴角飄散戀愛氣息
醒了只見紐約景色
飄雪懸在窗花似追生兩極
街角訪客影了照片
手裡車票袋裡證件
輕快坐於NR線跟他見面
LA LA LA~~~~~ LA LA LA~~~~~~
相擁著遊世界 向初戀參拜
多麼遠　多麼近　夢太美
夜已深　繼續逛街
相戀像遊世界　日子多飛快
My Love My Love
若老了也會愉快天真如一個少艾
歡笑的臉放著照片
總有歌舞喜劇上演
就如羅密歐一剎影於眼前
街角訪客影了照片
手裡車票袋裡證件
輕快坐於NR線跟他見面
LA LA LA~~~~~ LA LA LA~~~~~~
相擁著遊世界　向初戀參拜
多麼遠　多麼近　夢太美
夜已深　繼續逛街
相戀像遊世界 日子多飛快
My Love My Love
若老了也會愉快天真如一個少艾
相擁著　相擁著遊世界　向初戀參拜
多麼遠　多麼近 夢太美
夜已深　繼續逛街
相戀像遊世界　日子多飛快
My Love My Love
若老了也會愉快天真如一個少艾

一人晚餐......

一人晚餐
作曲：方文良
填詞：張美賢
編曲：RICHARD YUEN
監製：RICHARD YUEN / 杜自持

外面是日曬你卻講晚安
滴著汗扣上雪中境況
當我在辦公室很忙
或你在渴睡已經倒在床

#未絕望就算各散於兩方
月亮在晚空 同樣升降
將這電郵輸送留心看
若果要說著我的掛牽恐怕談天光#

就算一人晚餐一人望海我會習慣
兩人坐家中沒旁人我懂欣賞孤與單
就算深宵失眠寂寞瀰漫有些冰冷
尋到心中所愛從未多心想再揀
就算一人上班一人候車偶爾自嘆
我仍學會假日陪同友好傾通宵買衫
就算相戀艱難日夜緩慢世間很冷
回憶不敢偷懶 留守到尾不見從不散
repeat #
就算一人上班一人候車偶爾自嘆
我仍學會假日陪同友好傾通宵買衫
就算相戀艱難日夜緩慢世間很冷
回憶不敢偷懶 來生你我都再難失散
就算一人晚餐一人望海我會習慣
兩人坐家中沒旁人我懂欣賞孤與單
就算深宵失眠寂寞瀰漫有些冰冷
尋到心中所愛從未多心想再揀
就算一人上班一人候車偶爾自嘆
我仍學會假日陪同友好似當初貪玩
就算相戀艱難日夜緩慢世間很冷
回憶不敢偷懶 留守到尾不見從不散

發誓

發誓 鍾嘉欣

曲：鄧智偉
詞：陳詩慧
編：Kenix Cheang

發誓從此　絕無兒嬉
讓愛戀隨心細味　餘生愛著你
如死怕忘記　共誰入戲

從未到訪過夢內
不過心事仍可裝載
還未置身這事外　換來漫天塵埃
難道有害　何以不再
全意栽花仍不開
他朝養份再多不過無力愛仍熱切在期待

＊發誓從此　絕無兒嬉
　令我堅守　也全是你
　因　這段情　告別明日痛悲
　而你是情深亦無人比
　讓愛戀隨心細味　明知愛著你
　難得再共你　是誰造美＊

如若咖啡太乏味
苦澀甘願嚐得淒美
其實你早已預備　感覺曾經垂死
從未怯避　連你雙臂
全意張開來高飛
即使最後你竟撐到無力氣仍願意沒逃避

REPEAT＊

發誓從此　絕無兒嬉
令我堅守　也全是你
因　這段情　告別明日痛悲
而你是情深亦無人比
讓愛戀隨心細味　餘生愛著你
如死怕忘記　共誰入戲

日夜想你

★鍾嘉欣 - 日夜想你★

日夜想你
主唱：鍾嘉欣
作曲：鍾嘉欣
填詞：張美賢
編曲：杜自持@Bebop Music
監製：杜自持@Bebop Music



天色很光天窗何事總關起
風聲很多心聲全部關於你
我也試過痛了倦了都不想　放棄
真的緊緊相擁仍像假歡喜
假的瀟灑分開誰又真演戲
我有勇氣吻你就會很快樂　為何逃避
曾有過一秒　抱著於一起
忘記要怎樣抽離
曾經很開心　一分一刻　我會儲起
曾有過感覺　我未想講起
而秘密會屬於你
情感這東西　始終必須運氣
真的很多感觸如像小把戲
假的很多消息然後怎收尾
愛要有勇氣老實說偏顧忌　仍然逃避
曾有過一秒　抱著於一起
忘記要怎樣抽離
曾經很開心　一分一刻　我會儲起
如你我可以最後於一起
你會知道我日夜想你
從不想多講　只因不想累你
曾有過一秒　抱著於一起
忘記要怎樣抽離
曾經很開心　一分一刻　我會儲起
如你我可以最後於一起
你會知道我日夜想你
從不想多講　都只想保護你
能有這福氣　有幸識到你
才決定努力爭氣
從不講出口　這麼這麼為你

其實我不快樂

鍾嘉欣 - 其實我不快樂

離別你不經異地 想工作暗天暗地
直到可困倦床睡 不掛念你
情願我呼天叫地 總好過這麼顧忌
害怕走往日場地 敢碰著你會撐不起

和誰在一起都用來共你相比
就算了不起只可做到我知己
誰若寄望替代你最美都要放棄 只能退避
和誰在一起很自然共你相比
就算遊戲笑著也未快樂得起
難道我這麼寄望有天可失憶 找到轉機

其實我很不快樂 想躲進暗黑街角
淚盡可痛快地流落 不知那日會對愛再有感覺

和誰在一起都用來共你相比
就算了不起只可做到我知己
誰若寄望替代你最美都要放棄 只能退避
和誰在一起很自然共你相比
就算遊戲笑著也未快樂得起
難道我這寄望有天可失憶 找到轉機

和誰能在一起都用來共你相比
就算了不起只可做到我知己
誰若寄望替代你最美都要放棄 只好退避

和誰在一起很自然共你相比
就算遊戲笑著也未快樂得起
難道我這寄望有天可失憶
難道這份記念遇著空氣
欠缺就會死

愛的一種說法

愛的一種說法 - 朱紫嬈 (Chloe Chu)
Chloe, Chu, 朱紫嬈
作曲：Joseph Wei
填詞：周耀輝
編曲：王雙駿
監製：王雙駿

Lyric @ Lemon Music Group 檸音樂歌詞網

螞蟻 約在這裡 湊巧碰著皮鞋
或者就像信你 我這麼信你 也許毀於一旦
雨線撇在那裡 湊巧碰著泥濘
或者就當世界太多不測

或者是愛 愛 都需要去接受愛
愛 都需要去記得蓋起的撲克 會倒塌
誰和誰不變化 誰憑誰真的開心嗎
我愛你嗎 懷疑只會被踐踏
沉迷時竟會怕 祈求時唸著代價
別怪它 我的悲觀性格

這裡 我在這裡 湊巧看著圍城
或者學習歎氣 要怎麼歎氣 為了結果開花
那裡 你在那裡 湊巧皺著眉頭
或者就當世界太多不差

或者是愛 愛 都需要去接受愛
愛 都需要去記得蓋起的撲克 會倒塌
誰和誰不變化 誰憑誰真的開心嗎
我愛你嗎 懷疑只會被踐踏
沉迷時竟會怕 祈求時唸著代價
別怪它 我的悲觀性格

誰和誰不變化 誰憑誰真的開心嗎
你愛我嗎 懷疑一切沒抉擇
沉迷時竟會怕 祈求時唸著代價
別怪它 我的悲觀性格
就當它 愛的一種說法

我愛你很多(保持愛你)

我愛你很多
電影《保持愛你》主題歌曲
主唱：Chloe Chu

誰問我 誰勸我
我並沒有不快樂
日子沒有不同
在你離開以後
我沒哭 我沒說
偽裝自己的沉默
回憶是一段影片
我獨自看完又重頭
我愛你很多
多到不怕寂寞
多到忘記了時間
遠走了卻没帶走我
我想你很多
所以才選擇守候
我們堅持過
到现在 我還是記得
愛你很多
誰問我 誰勸我
我並沒有不快樂
自己好好的過
也對得起你了
那一刻 兩個人
永遠不會再來過
愛情是一條視線
我們在不同的段落
我愛你很多
多到不怕寂寞
多到忘記了時間
遠走了卻没帶走我
我想你很多
所以才選擇守候
我們堅持過
到现在 我還是記得
愛你很多
我愛你很多
多到不怕寂寞
多到忘記了時間
遠走了卻沒帶走我
我想你很多
這些話始終沒說
如能再問候
請给我一直的笑容
我愛你很多

Realize

Colbie Caillat - Realize

Take time to realize that your warmth is crashing down on in.
Take time to realize that I am on your side.
Didn't I, didn't I tell you?
But I can't spell it out for you.
No, it's never gonna be that simple.
No, I can't spell it out for you.

If you just realize what I just realized,
Then we'd be perfect for each other,
And we'll never find another.
Just realize what I just realized,
We'd never have to wonder,
If we missed out on each other now.

Take time to realize,
Oh, oh, I'm on your side.
Didn't I, didn't I tell you?
Take time to realize this all can pass you by.
Didn't I tell you?
But I can't spell it out for you.
No, it's never gonna be that simple.
No, I can't spell it out for you.

If you just realize what I just realized,
Than we'd be perfect for each other,
And we'll never find another.
Just realize what I just realized,
We'd never have to wonder,
If we missed out on each other oh.

It's not the same.
No, it's never the same,
If you don't feel it too.
If you meet me halfway,
If you would meet me halfway,
It can be the same for you.

If you just realize what I just realized,
Than we'd be perfect for each other,
And we'll never find another.
Just realize what I just realized,
We'd never have to wonder...

Just realize what I just realized,
If you just realize what I just realized... ooh ooh.
Missed out on each other now.
Missed out on each other now.

Realize, realize, realize, realize, oh.

Never Say Never

Some things we don’t talk about,
Rather do without and just hold the smile
有些事 我們不討論 也不想辦法解決
只會掛著笑容在臉上

Falling in and out of love
Ashamed and proud of, together all the while
在感情的世界 出出入入
對愛情的驕傲 對愛情的羞愧 總是同時並存

You can never say never
While we don’t know when
But time and time again
Younger now than we were before
永遠的承諾太沉重
我們不知何時會分離
但一次又一次我們一起從難關中度過
比起以前 我們年輕了許多
(這句我不知怎麼翻會比較好...)

Don’t let me go
Don’t let me go
Don’t let me go
Don’t let me go
不要讓我走
不要讓我走
不要讓我走
不要讓我走
(X2)

Picture you’re queen of everything
Far as the eye can see under your command
想像妳是一切的女王
世界都在你的掌控中
I will be your guardian when all is crumbling
I’ll steady your hand
我願意當你的守護者
發生危機時 我會牢牢的抓住妳的手

You can never say never
While we don’t know when
But time, time and time again
Younger now than we were before
永遠的承諾太沉重
我們不知何時會分離
但一次又一次我們一起從難關中度過
比起以前 我們年輕了許多

Don’t let me go
Don’t let me go
Don’t let me go
Don’t let me go
不要讓我走
不要讓我走
不要讓我走
不要讓我走
(X2)

We’re falling apart and coming together again and again
We’re growing apart but we pull it together,
Pull it together again
我們一再的分離 卻一再的復合

Don’t let me go
Don’t let me go
Don’t let me go
Don’t let me go
不要讓我走
不要讓我走
不要讓我走
不要讓我走(X2)

字花 - Sunrise Version

Sunrise version
Fiona 薛凱琪
曲：陳奐仁Hanjin
詞：陳詠謙
編：Allan Lau
監：Edward Chan, Charles Lee

自那天起 寫不出半首詩
留下到處 一張張廢紙
是我筆尖 發現文筆太亂
零落破碎 一想起你便斷

*唯求用這首歌 唱出一種結束
如旋律內有雨 那就盡情哭
如文字會生花 也許明天會花開遍地
枯萎那個 無謂再目送

直到今天 寫一首最美的
旋律帶過 當天的記憶
為你寫歌 作別離的記認
文字抹去 今天的太任性

Repeat *

文字記載感情 無奈我已淍零
每字也是有關於你 我做過什麼

Repeat *

傷口會痛 無謂再亂碰

I do....Yes I do.....

Sometimes I ask myself the same question....and every time I will give myself the same answer to the question.....Yes, I do.....I do wanna get married.....I think this is nothing special to every single woman in the world....The point is...who will you get married to and when will you get married.....

Hahahaha.....I think I am such a daydreamer....Dreaming about my wedding.....

....I can see myself standing in front of a beautiful white church which is built at the delightful green grass field, and where is located next to a lovely blue ocean........the church is decorated with many pink flowers....

Then I am walking towards my fiance who is smiling at me on the long red carpet.....and everyone is looking at me and clapping their hands with all their best wishes...... ...

.........hahaha.........perhaps this dream is too early to be dreamed of.......but I think this dream will become true one day.....hahahah........perhaps every girl in the world would have dreamed about this kind of dream.....just not sure how many girls will get their dream come true......

执迷不悔No Regrets

This time I resolutely face
Uninhibitive obsession
I don't really mind
Whether this being right or wrong
Even if fallen deep
I don't really care
Even if I grasp on to uncertainty
I grasp on to it with no regrets

Don't say that I should give it up
That I should open my eyes
I use my heart
To see and to feel
You are not me
How can you understand
Even if I grasp on to uncertainty
Let me hold on to it with no regrets

I am not as perfect as you may think
Sometimes I also can't distinguish being right from being wrong
It's not that I don't want to walk out of uncertainty
But only this time
This time it's myself and no one else

Whose heart should I use to realize
To truly touch upon my surroundings
Even if it's pain
Even if it meant tears
It's just my self's own sorrow

Whose heart can I still use to realize
To truly touch upon my surroundings
Even if I'm fatigued
Even if it's exhaustion
I can only grasp on to uncertainty with no regrets

執迷不悔

作曲:袁惟仁 填詞:陳少琪 編曲:Gary Tong

這次我重頭面對 過去和以後
如何自欺 再不管這對否　如何不捨 也放開所有
墮入深溝 完全不想悔疚

我決意沉迷下去 放眼迎以後
人尋求自尊 你心中感覺否　人如何長久 卻了解不夠
縱獨自飛走 完全不想悔疚　身邊的聲音祝福我的一切
我已聽厭你說我那樣美麗　若付在舊日子不在可貴
我說我這次 要痛快有我的依歸

今天且忍心一聲再會　不須傷心風中依偎
勉強與你 到底終會　再熱烈後變飛灰
今天且忍心笑笑乾杯　可知一天我會蕩回
你縱會說已早改變　獨自夢下去都不悔

Missing the stars

The sky is small and bright in the city where I am staying at the moment. Every single night when I look up to the sky, I can hardly find any star in the sky. The brightness of the city just cover up the brightness of the stars.

The sky without stars is just like the life without a guide. I miss the stars from the sky and it's just like I miss the guide in my life......

Intuition

INTUITION by JEWEL:

La la la la
La di da da
La di da da
La da


I'm just a simple girl
In a high tech digital world
I really try to understand
All the powers that rule this land
They say Miss J's big butt is boss
Kate Moss can't find a job
In a world of post modern fad
What was good now is bad


It's not hard to understand
Just follow this simple plan


Follow your heart
Your Intuition
It will lead you in the right direction
Let go of your mind
Your Intuition
Is easy to find
Just follow your heart baby


You look at me
but you're not quite sure
Am I it or could you get more
You learn cool from magazines
You learn love from Charlie Sheen


If you want me let me know
I promise I won't say no


Follow your heart
Your intuition
It will lead you in the right direction
Let go of your mind
Your Intuition
Is easy to find
[ Intuition lyrics from
http://www.lyricsyoulove.com/j/jewel/intuition/ ]Just follow your heart baby


You got something that you wantin' me to sell
Sell your sin
Just cash in
You got something that you wantin' me to tell
You'll love me
Wait and see


If you want me
Don't play games
I promise
It won't be in vain
Uh, uh, uh


Follow your heart
Your intuition
It will lead you in the right direction
Let go of your mind
Your Intuition
Is easy to find
Just follow your heart baby


Just follow your heart
Your intuition
It will lead you in the right direction
Let go of your mind
Your Intuition
Makes it easy to find
Just follow your heart baby


Follow your heart
Your intuition
It will lead you in the right direction
Let go of your mind
Your Intuition
Is easy to find
Just follow your heart baby

You were meant for me

An amazing song by Jewel

You were meant for me

I hear the clock, it's six a.m.
I feel so far from where I've been
I got my eggs and my pancakes too
I got my maple syrup, everything but you.
I break the yolks, make a smiley face
I kinda like it in my brand new place
I wipe the spots off the mirror
Don't leave the keys in the door
Never put wet towels on the floor anymore' cause
Dreams last for so long
even after you're gone
I know you love me
And soon you will see
You were meant for me
And I was meant for you.
I called my momma, she was out for a walk
Consoled a cup of coffee but it didn't wanna talk
So I picked up a paper, it was more bad news
More hearts being broken or people being used
Put on my coat in the pouring rain
I saw a movie it just wasn't the same
'Cause it was happy and I was sad
It made me miss you oh so bad 'cause
Dreams last for so long
Even after you're gone
I know you love me
And soon you will see
You were meant for me
And I was meant for you.
I go about my business, I'm doin fine
Besides what would I say if I had you on the line
Same old story, not much to say
Hearts are broken, everyday.
I brush my teeth and put the cap back on
I know you hate it when I leave the light on
I pick a book up. Turn the sheets down.
Take a deep breath and a good look around
Put on my pjs and hop into bed
I'm half alive but I feel mostly dead
I try and tell myself it'll be all right
I just shouldn't think anymore tonight 'cause
Dreams last for so long
Even after you're gone
I know you love me
And soon I know you will see
You were meant for me
And I was meant for you

Yeah.... You were meant for me
and I was meant for you.

No Good In Goodbye

Jewel - No Good in Goodbye


Once upon time used to feel so fine
I really mean to shine
we'd laugh like we were drunk on wine
no not anymore [x4]
Used to feel so good
used to laugh like we should
we did what we could
come on baby I'm sorry
would you open the door [x4]

[Chorus]
Baby don't say the stars are falling from your eyes
Baby just say, say you need me one more time
For you and I,
[ Find more Lyrics on http://mp3lyrics.org/odV4 ]
there is no good in goodbye

You know I used to love to leave,
always had something up my sleave,
I guess I mistook being alone for being free,
But no never again [x4]

[Chorus]

Yes I too was just like you,
finding comfort in a strangers face,
In a darkened place where no one knew my name
And I was slow to see that everything had changed
and I was sad to see that I would never be the same
Without you by my side I'd go insane,
Cause you make the world make sense
Baby, you make the world make sense

Stay Here Forever

Stay Here Forever by Jewel


I'm staring at the ceiling, laying here dreaming,
Wasting the day away
The world's flying by our window outside
But hey baby that's okay
This feels so right, it can't be wrong so far as I can see
Where you wanna go
Baby, I'll do anything

'Cause if you wanna go
Baby, let's go
If you wanna rock,
I'm ready to roll
And if you wanna slow down,
We can slow down together
If you wanna walk,
Baby, let's walk
Have a little kiss,
Have a little talk
We don't gotta leave at all
We can stay here forever
Lay here forever, oh

If you want to see that Italian tower leaning
Baby, we can leave right now
If that's too far, we can head in the car
And take a little trip around town
They say that California is nice and warm this time of year
Baby, say the word and we'll just disappear

'Cause if you wanna go
Baby, let's go
If you wanna rock,
I'm ready to roll
And if you wanna slow down,
We can slow down together
If you wanna walk,
Baby, let's walk
Have a little kiss,
Have a little talk
We don't gotta leave at all
We can lay here forever
Stay here forever, oh

Take me for a whirl,
Just a boy and a girl
Letting go of it all
Holding on to one another
Or there's a whole world to discover
Right here, under the covers

'Cause if you wanna go
Baby, let's go
If you wanna rock,
I'm ready to roll
And if you wanna slow down,
We can slow down together
If you wanna walk,
Baby, let's walk
Have a little kiss,
Have a little talk
We don't gotta leave at all
We can stay here forever
Lay here forever, oh
Let's stay here forever, oh

Stronger Woman

Jewel - Stronger Woman lyrics


I guess you could say
I'm one of those girls
That's always been with one of those guys
You know the type
Like right now
He sleeps while I write

It's better than crying
I'm worn out from trying
From loving a man who always makes it clear
I'm not welcome here
Just when he's hungry or horny/frisky or needs something cleaned
You know what I mean
But not tonight
Cuz' come the morning light

I'm gonna love myself
More than anyone else
Believe in me
Even if someone can't see
A stronger woman in me

I'm gonna be my own best friend
Stick with me till the end
Won't lose myself again
Never, no
Cuz' there's a stronger woman
A stronger woman in me

The light bulbs buzz I get up
Head to my drawer
Wish there was more
I could say
Another fairy tale fades to grey


I've lived on hope
Like a child
Walking that mile
Faking that smile
All the while
Wishing my heart had wings
Well from now on I'm gonna be
The kind of woman I'd want my daughter to be
Oh

I'm gonna love myself
More than anyone else
Believe in me
Even if someone can't see
A stronger woman in me
I'm gonna' be my own best friend
Stick with me till the end
Won't lose myself again
Never, no
Cause there's a stronger woman
Stronger woman

This is me packing up my bags
This is me headed for the door
This is me the best you've ever had

I'm gonna love myself
More than anyone else
Believe in me, even if someone can't see
The stronger woman in me

I'm gonna be my own best friend
Stick with me till the end
Won't lose myself again
No, no
Cause there's a stronger woman, stronger woman
There's a stronger woman
Stronger woman in me
Stronger woman in me

不在身邊，不等於不愛你……

常常覺得，談戀愛的人就像小孩子一樣，要寵著哄著，要時時陪伴，更要無微不至。

還記得嗎？在我們很小的時候，只要看不見媽媽，就會因為不安而大哭起來。其實，媽媽只是不在我們的眼前，我們只因為眼前看不見，所以就認為媽媽不見了，認為媽媽不見了的同時，也以為媽媽不愛我們了。


戀愛，不就跟那時的我們很像？

在被擁抱的時候，聽對方說情話的時候，手牽手逛街的時候，我們都覺得對方是百分之百地愛著我們。

可是，就從道了再見，關上家門的那一刻起，內心懸念，因為見不到，擔心對方有沒有想念我們，聽不到，見不到的我們，憂慮對方會不忠於我們，只因為不在我們身邊，我們就以為愛會不見，卻不知道，不在身邊的 TA，不等於不愛你，很多事情，看不到不等於不存在。

而且，每一個人都是戀愛中的人，所以，不安的不只我們，還有看不見我們的TA，彼此，都有著一樣的不安，都期望相同的諒解。有時候，我們會抱怨當我們需要TA的時候，TA是不是不在身旁，可有些時候，TA最需要我們的時候，我們也不知情，不是嗎?


我想，很多人在年輕的時候，都會很熱衷於工作，也有很多人的工作，屬於長期需要超時工作的狀態，對這些人的戀人來說，也許覺得心愛的人常常無法照顧自己，可對那些人來說也是相同的，心愛的人常常不在身邊，不管因為什麽原因無法見面或分隔兩地，真心相愛的兩個人，內心所感受的寂寞與不安會是相同的。彼此，都有可能在最需要對方的時候，卻必須一個人堅強起來。

TA是愛你的，就如同看不見TA的你，還是深深愛著 TA的，不是嗎？

我相信，真心相愛的兩個人，就算不在彼此身邊，還是深深愛著的，兩顆心，也會因為著愛，而緊緊相繫。

吃到好吃的東西時，看到美麗的景物時，都會希望和TA 分享，TA不在身邊的時候，你不也抱著這樣的心情在愛TA嗎？為何，就不能相信他也和你一樣呢？你說是嗎？

我們常常懷疑自己明明條件不差為什麽偏偏沒有另一半, 而那些不那麽漂亮不那麽可愛不那麽幽默的人反而擁有令人羨慕的感情,為什麽呢……我想…是因為…我們都太小心太謹慎太不敢去愛了吧…

我們將自己的感情包裝的好好的不讓對方發現。為了所謂的矜持與害怕…..選擇等待….選擇放棄…. 選擇錯過…

被愛很幸福…可以接受可以拒絕可以有面子於是我們總是等著人家來愛,但是…..當我們發現沒辦法愛上對方時呢?? 又或是我愛的人永遠都不說愛我呢? 我該接受那段不期盼的感情還是勇於追求自己的幸福呢?

不敢接受愛我的人的情感也不肯去追求心動的對像只是偷偷希望對方能主動,難怪…會這麽的寂寞….這是因為….不給別人也不給自己…任何的機會…但是….在這個大家都那麽脆弱的時代, 或許男男女女都選擇了沉默。

我們在曖昧的界線中游走不太近也不太遠….在若有若無的暗示中期盼對方的回應….

喜歡一個人何必在意先說出口，想跟一個人牽著手一直一直走下去分享自己的喜怒哀愁，這樣美麗的心情難得我們都要學著更溫柔….對愛我們或我們愛的人… 認真接受...認真付出..遺憾與後悔比什麽都讓人難過，別讓幸福，又由身邊流失了…

祝福所有人都能找到所愛.....

Because

(Verse 1)
It's all because,
I waited for so long, you showed me you were the one,
I gave you my heart, right from the very start so,
Every time you lied, I knew inside,
Get another chance, I was hurting, I was broken
I stayed to long and so that's why, you didn't think that I'd move on,
Because - Jessica Mauboy

(Chorus)
It's all because, I loved you, (because) I held you, (because) I believed you,
You're not what I needed, (because) I'm stronger,
(Because) I'm better, (because) without you, you'd thought I'd be in pieces,
Because (you thought I'd be in pieces), because, I loved ya, (because) I loved ya, (because) I loved ya

(Verse 2)
You gave me, just one thing, but taking from the beginning
You left me, a heart ache, how much more could I take,
With every alibi, that made me cry, I'd still gave you more,
I should've given up, when I had had enough,
But I stayed to long, that's why, you didn't think that I'd move on,

(Chorus)

(Verse 3)
I made a mistake of giving me to you,
I made a mistake of loving you x4

因為你是我最好的朋友……

因為你是我最好的朋友
不開心時我才會很自然的冷漠不必敷衍
我想“得罪”你要比得罪其他人讓我放心的多

因為你是我最好的朋友,
雖然我們不再是抬頭不見低頭見
但你還是很清楚我順不順利心不心煩
其實我知道我的每次更新你都會看



因為你是我最好的朋友
你會天天抨擊我如何如何白痴
而如何如何聰明的你如何如何鄙視我,
其實當我難過時你比誰都支持我!

因為你是我最好的朋友
我可以毫不掩飾自己的狼狽與悲傷,
因為你會裝作看不見你相信我能堅強勇敢,
其實我的狼狽與難堪你都知道
但你不會對第三個人言!



因為你是我最好的朋友
我習慣了在你為我勞苦奔波後總是一句嘿嘿不用謝
其實貌似沒心沒肺的我很是感謝

因為你是我最好的朋友
當你堅決的對我說“你的事情我再也不管了”
可以後的日子裡你依然很是關心照管不誤
那時的我很是感激因為任性的我在你面前又一次獲得了原諒



因為你是我最好的朋友
我才天天干些似乎損人不利己的事
其實我只在你面前損你
在背後誰說你不好我絕對會跟他急

因為你是我最好的朋友
我才總是用酸酸的語氣說恁是什麼什麼您忙時
其實我真的覺得你很優秀
儘管打死我也不會在你面前承認



因為你是我最好的朋友
我才用命令式的口吻排比式的句式給你訊息
而且習慣了對你動用威脅加暴力
其實我明白我能威脅到的人寥寥無幾而你恰恰就是其中之一

因為你是我最好的朋友
有時候你也會幽默的帶著哭腔說：“真是不幸啊老天爺幹嘛讓我遇見這個人吶！”
我也會貌似生氣的回答你： “別抱怨了認命吧”


因為你是我最好的朋友
我不會說祝你一生平安便永遠消逝不見,
也不會說祝你幸福便似乎真的有給了你幸福一樣的滿足感
我只會威脅你天天快樂時時開心
而我會一直在你身邊



因為你是我最好的朋友
你是我陰霾的終點快樂的起點
煩惱的間斷點 心情的跳躍點
點動成線點劃線雙點劃線虛虛實實粗粗細細
最終成為了我璀璨青春的樸素平面
溫和而溫暖
你給我絕對自由的天空,
卻也在我的天空留下你飛過的投影
投下你凝視的風景,給我感激世界的源泉
因為你是我最好的朋友……

Awful Beautiful Life

Darryl Worley - Awful Beautiful Life

woke up early with a poundin in my head
I'd been out the night before with all my friends
A little worried kinda wondrin what I did
I said Lord please forgive me for my sins
My wife wanted to kill me but she tried to save me first
You're goin if I have to drag your butt to church

(Chorus)
I love this crazy tragic
Sometimes almost magic
Awful beautiful life

I read the hyms and kinda sorta sang along
Made it through the sunday sermon wide awake
We met the family for dinner at our home
Drank some beer, watched the game, and cooked some steaks
My little brother had a big fight with his wife
And my poor mother sat between them both all night

(Chorus)
I love this crazy tragic
Sometimes almost magic
Awful beautiful life

We said a prayer for cousin Michael in Iraq
We're all aware that he may never make it back
We talked about the way we missed his stupid jokes
And how he loved to be a soldier more than most

I laid in bed that night and thought about the day
And how my life is like a roller caster ride
The ups and downs and crazy turns along the way
It'll throw you off if you don't hold on tight
You can't really smile until you shed some tears
I could die today, or I might live on for years

(Chorus)
I love this crazy tragic
Sometimes almost magic
Awful beautiful life...

Living in the here and now

Artist: Worley Darryl
Song: Living In The Here And Now
Album:Darryl Worley Sheet Music
Darryl Worley CDs


People say I’m a crazy son of a gun
Because I make me a couple of a million and I save a One
I don’t ever buy green bananas, Don’t believe I’ll ever leave Savannah
I don’t worry about tomorrow until it comes
I’m just living in the here and now

High on life getting by somehow
Laughing and talking and drinking it up
I ain’t got enough time to thinking to much
Today is another beautiful day
I got the wind in my hair, the sun on my face
Tomorrow can’t bring me down
‘cause I’m living in the here and now

A pickup runs like a top and it’s a ten years old
Yea my boots fit just like a glove and my beer is cold
My friends all love me just the way I am
Yea their cool with the fact that I don’t give a damn
Next week, next month, next year, hell who knows

I’m just living in the here and now
High on life, getting by somehow
Laughing and talking and drinking it up
I ain’t got enough time to thinking to much
Today is another beautiful day
I got the wind in my hair, the sun on my face
Tomorrow can’t bring me down
‘cause I’m living in the here and now

Yea today is another beautiful day
I’ve got the wind in my hair, the sun on my face
Tomorrow can’t bring me down
‘cause I’m living in the here and now
In the here and now
Yes, I’m living in the here and now
Right now, right now, right now
Finally living
I’m finally living in the here and now
In the here and now, in the here and now
Right now, right now, right now

如果你遇到這樣一個人，就請你再相信一次愛情別放棄……

如果你遇到這樣一個人
你們坦然的講述著過往，而你突然問自己，為什麼不是她的時候
你就應該再相信一次愛情
你們莫名的了解對方，不需要花時間來聯繫就很親切

如果你遇到這樣一個人
彼此很親切，講話隨意的不用字句斟酌
你就應該再相信一次愛情
或許你們都不知不覺後知後覺，只是誰都不知道


如果你遇到這樣一個人
在你心情不好的時候，幾句話能讓你莫名其妙的安靜下來
你就應該再相信一次愛情
只因為她讓你冷靜，安心

如果你遇到這樣一個人
遇到開心或者不開心的事，都好想讓她知道
你就應該再相信一次愛情
你的消息你希望她統統知道


如果你遇到這樣一個人
讓你放慢一切速度只想回憶出有關她的一切
你就應該再相信一次愛情
她已經走進你的生活作息

如果你遇到這樣一個人
給了你全新的稱號
你就應該相信
就算稱呼也會上癮


如果你遇到這樣一個人
她的想法她寫的東西你都想了解
你就應該相信
你對她的關心程度遠遠超過你想像的

如果你遇到這樣一個人
睡前也會讓你早點睡
她的話你會認真聽甚至想上幾遍
她或許無心的只言片語已經讓你有所小小的改變


如果你遇到這樣這樣一個人
讓你開始計劃著接下來的一年、兩年、三年，甚至敢說 10年都不會變
你就應該相信
她是你未來不可錯過的一個開始

如果你遇到這樣一個人
如果上面的“如果……”都發生
你就應該瘋狂一次
不為自己，也應為她
你什麼都可以放棄，唯獨她你捨棄不得
你應該無比堅信，她在一邊等你大大的擁抱~

如果“我愛你”在你和她之間很難開口
請相信隻字千金的道理
你們玩的不是冒險，是真誠

如果你去她的空間，只要她看見一定會回過去看看
你找她 只要看見都會問你怎麼了
如果有一天你情緒低到了谷底，停在一個路邊你找她
只要她可以 她一定會跑來找你
至少我捨不得這樣一個人就此消失不見

如果你遇到這樣一個人，不要錯過

心理學家說，適合過一輩子的人……

有些觸動，有些感動，有些心動。

心理學家認為，判斷男女兩個人是否適合“牽手”，應考慮以下10個因素。
第一、彼此都是對方的好朋友，不帶任何條件，喜歡與對方在一起。
第二、彼此很容易溝通、互相可以很敞開地坦白任何事情，而不必擔心被對方懷疑或輕視。
第三、兩人在心靈上有共同的理念和價值觀，並且對這些觀念有清楚的認識與追求。
第四、雙方都認為婚姻是一輩子的事，而且雙方(特別強調“雙方”)都堅定地願意委身在這個長期的婚姻關係中。
第五、當發生衝突或爭執的時候可以一起來解決，而不是等以後來發作。
第六、相處可以彼此逗趣，常有歡笑，在生活中許多方面都會以幽默相待。
第七、彼此非常了解，並且接納對方，當知道對方了解了自己的優點和缺點後，仍然確信被他所接納。
第八、從最了解你、也是你最信任的對方處得到支持的肯定。
第九、有時會有浪漫的感情，但絕大多數的時候，你們的相處是非常滿足而且是自由自在的。
第十、有一個非常理性和成熟的交往，並且雙方都能感受到，在許多不同的層面上你們是很相配的。




愛情最常見的形式就是兩性之間的捕捉與追逐。

人際間的好感可以相互傳達出強大的力量，以至於能夠彌補客觀條件的不足。

是相似性而非互補性把人們結合到了一起。

相似性主要包括三個方面的匹配度：價值觀與人格、興趣和經驗、人際風格。

其中，人際風格是最重要的關係預測指標。

與和自己人際溝通風格有所差異的人交往會有挫折感，且較少有進一步發展的可能。


愛情是追到手的嗎？
不是。真正的感情根本不需要追的。兩個人的默契，在慢慢將兩顆心的距離縮短，在無意識中漸漸靠近彼此。從好朋友到情人，真正的感情是用不了多久的。從你喜歡上他的那一刻起，也許他也在那一刻喜歡上了你。同節奏的愛情往往能奏出最和諧最動聽的樂章。
真正的愛情需要什麼？需要兩個人在一起是輕鬆快樂的，沒有壓力。




愛一個人就是毫無保留地付出嗎？
不是。每一個人都是一個獨立的人，我們首先是屬於自己的，我們有思想，我們有個性，而不是把我們的全部都給對方。我們可以有保留，比如你不願意說的隱私，有秘密的人才是成熟的，不是嗎？有時候不說出來反而更好。

外貌和個性哪個更重要？
男人年輕的時候往往喜歡漂亮的女子，25歲以後，會選擇和自己性格合適的女子，能和自己一起過日子的人。喜歡一個人，太急切了，反而不好。一是因為越想得到的越得不到；二是得到了也很難珍惜，來得快去得也快。細水長流一些，愛情會更長久。相愛容易相處難。相處中最重要的是寬容和妥協，在信任和了解的基礎上。沒有寬容和妥協，任何兩個人都無法相處。

純純的愛也許只有一次，但是真愛未必只有一次。
時間會撫平一切傷痕。我們其實是可以愛上很多人的。我們不是喜歡某個人，而是喜歡某種類型的人。先來的人和我們相遇了，於是我們幸福地走到了一起；對於後到的人，只能抱以歉意，同時，祝福他早日找到屬於他自己的幸福。沒有誰是我們一生非擁有不可的，愛一個人，很多時候實際上是習慣了這個人




現實和浪漫哪個更重要？
現實。沒有現實為基礎，浪漫就是空中樓閣。大學校園的愛情往往隨著畢業而告終，大多是因為不現實，不在一個城市。只有相互欣賞相互佩服各有所長的人，才會碰撞出最美麗的火花，也才會結出最甜美的愛情果實。

分手後我們還可以做朋友嗎？
最好不要。剪不斷，理還亂。過去了就過去了，我們不是生活在過去，而是現在。愛情不等於生活，只是生活的一部分。不要因為自己長相不如對方而放棄追求的打算，長相只是一時的印象，真正決定能否結合主要取決於雙方的性格。我見過的帥哥配醜女，醜女配帥哥的太多了。




戀愛的時間能長盡量長。這最少有兩點好處：
一，充分、盡可能長的享受戀愛的愉悅，
二，兩人相處時間越長，越能檢驗彼此是否真心，越能看出兩人性格是否合得來。
想知道一個人愛不愛你，就看他和你在一起有沒有活力，開不開心，有就是愛，沒有就是不愛
愛情不是感動，你不是他心目中的理想伴侶，即使一時接受你，將來碰上他心儀的那一位，一樣會離開你。有些人情緒容易大起大落，這樣的人是很難維持一段長久的關係的。




浪漫是什麼？
是送花？雨中漫步？樓前佇立不去？如果兩人彼此傾心相愛，什麼事都不做，靜靜相對都會感覺是浪漫的。否則，即使兩人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感覺不到浪漫的。

是否門當戶對不要緊，最重要應該是興當趣對，不然沒有共同語言，即使在一起，仍然會感覺到孤獨。





持久的愛情源於彼此發自內心的真愛，建立在平等的基礎之上。
任何只顧瘋狂愛人而不顧自己有否被愛，或是只顧享受被愛而不知真心愛人的人都不會有好的結局。
愛情既是風險投資，難免有去無回，失戀是再正常不過的事情。
愛過，就夠了。既然不能在一起，總有不能在一起的理由。
不能因為別人負了你，就不負責任地遊戲、報復或是墮落，自己演的戲，總要自己收場的。
何況，他不愛你，你做什麼他都不會在乎。
如果愛上，就不要輕易放過機會。
莽撞，可能使你後悔一陣子；怯懦，卻可能使你一輩子後悔。




沒有經歷過愛情的人生是不完整的，沒有經歷過痛苦的愛情是不深刻的。
愛情使人生豐富，痛苦使愛情昇華。
你可能習慣與現在的戀人，明明不太喜歡，但在一起久了，習慣使人不太願做新的選擇。
人生會面臨無數次選擇。
當給你機會選擇時，你一定要謹慎；
一旦你做出了選擇，就永遠不要後悔；
拿得起，放得下，該斷則斷，該忘記的，就把它忘記；
該珍惜的，就要把它珍惜。

我們總說：“我要找一個很愛很愛的人，才會談戀愛。”
但是當對方問你，怎樣才算是很愛很愛的時候，你卻無法回答他，因為你自己也不知道。




沒錯，我們總是以為，我們會找到一個自己很愛很愛的人。可是後來，當我們猛然回首，我們才會發覺自己曾經多麼天真。假如從來沒有開始，你怎麼知道自己會不會很愛很愛那個人呢？其實，很愛很愛的感覺，是要在一起經歷了許多事情之後才會發現的。或許每個人都希望能夠找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侶，但是你有沒有想過，在你身邊會不會早已經有人默默對你付出很久了，只是你沒有發覺而已呢？

所以，還是仔細看看身邊的人吧，他或許已經等你很久了。當你愛一個人的時候，愛到八分絕對剛剛好。所有的期待和希望都只有七八分，剩下兩三分用來愛自己。如果你還繼續愛得更多，很可能會給對方沉重的壓力，讓彼此喘不過氣來，完全喪失了愛情的樂趣。










所以請記住，喝酒不要超過六分醉，吃飯不要超過七分飽，愛一個人不要超過八分。

如果你也正在為愛迷惘，或許下面這段話可以給你一些啟示：

愛一個人，要了解也要開解；

要道歉也要道謝；要認錯也要改錯；要體貼也要體諒；

是接受而不是忍受；是寬容而不是縱容；是支持而不是支配；

是慰問而不是質問；是傾訴而不是控訴；是難忘而不是遺忘；

是彼此交流而不是凡事交代；是為對方默默祈求而不是向對方諸多要求。

可以浪漫，但不要浪費，不要隨便牽手，更不要隨便放手。





浪漫的人這樣描述與愛人的相逢：千萬人當中，在時間的無涯的荒野裡，沒有早一步，也沒有晚一步，剛巧趕上了。兩個人好著的時候，你不妨就這樣想吧。如果不好了，你要明白是否和某人在一起，不過是一個再簡單不過的概率問題。數千個擦肩而過中，你給誰機會誰就和你有緣分！縱沒有甲，也會有乙。別傻等那種想像中的木石前盟般的緣分了，生活中哪有那麼多傳奇。別醒著做夢了，難道你忘了藝術雖然來源生活，卻還高於生活嗎？

曖昧，是沒有證據的出軌….........

在這個曖昧氾濫的年代
男女之間被動地出現了第三種情感
曖昧不是愛情，但卻可以是愛情的萌芽
當兩個單身的異性由於長時間相處
而對彼此產生一份曖昧的情愫
旁人自然是無可非議
可是如果你或者對方身邊早已有了另一半
卻依然繼續著這所謂的第三種情感
那就另當別論了
男女之間的純友誼固然存在
但是任何事情之間都是有一個度
如果你自己把握不好這個度
還是勸你輕易不要趕這個“潮流”了…


今天下午，一個朋友和她老公分手了。
最後一句，電話那邊的聲音很清楚。
“滾開，別拿曖昧當藉口。”
其實，本應該上去安慰的。
但是，她背著自己的老公和別人煲電話粥，說情話，傳短信，
我們都知道.
照她自己的話講，
“我什麼都沒做，我很乾淨”。
是嗎？是吧。大概是吧...
但是，我很好奇普天之下又有幾人能大度的讓自己的愛人背著自己和別人玩“純潔”呢？
或是假借"知己""良朋"之名,暗渡"曖昧"之陳艙.
所以，我倒是覺得她老公那句話很經典。
甚至覺得她老公很智慧，處理感情危機很果斷。
人和人之間當然有純潔的友誼
但是，我們如何能奢望那萬分之一的幸運掉在兩個甚至更多情侶之間？
別忘了，她可是跟很多人都純潔的保持著友誼長在的關係.


曖昧是什麼？
曖昧是，比好朋友再親一點，但比情人遠一點。
曖昧是, 我喜歡你,但與愛情無關。
曖昧是，你會不時去她的BLOG看看有沒有更新；而且你會留意字裡行間，她對你有沒有什麼暗示。
曖昧是，有感覺，然而，這種感覺卻不足以讓你們同時決定發展一段正式的關係。
曖昧是，一邊享受出軌的刺激.感激偷情的滿足;另一邊感嘆人生有太多的無奈，抱怨現實有太多的限制,你知道沒有可能，但又捨不得放手。
曖昧是，有進一步的衝動，卻沒有進一步的必要。
曖昧是，為了逃避背叛而衍生出的罪惡感。
曖昧是，別人以為你們在搞地下情時，你還偶爾沾沾自喜,洋洋得意。
曖昧是，別人問你和她是否有可能，你理直氣壯的說"我心裡只有我老公。"
曖昧是，除了情人節，其它的節日，大家都交換禮物。
曖昧是, 沒有證據的出軌
曖昧是，你很想多走一步，但又怕跌了自己純潔的形象。你會很刻意的不小心向對方流露自己的感情。
當一個人自以為是的認為在遵守愛情的規則，同時和另一個(或另一些人)玩著以上游戲，
那麼...對，這就是曖昧。


總是有一種人,
喜歡為自己找各種藉口來掩飾自己的貪心.
曖昧在愛情裡，其實就是貪心.
總是有一種人,
常常一邊對朋友哭訴愛人是如何如何對不起自己,愛人是如何如何糾纏清...
自己又如何容忍，如何委屈.
另一邊卻和一個或幾個人保持曖昧,親密的'朋友'關係,
她可以叫那些人為寶貝，或是老公;
她也可以常常把愛你掛在嘴邊,說給那一個或那幾個'朋友' 聽.
她還可以花比跟她老公在一起還多的時間，周旋於各個' 朋友'之間，並且樂此不疲...
她總是在老公冷落她的時候覺得寂寞，因為寂寞她需要找很多'朋友'來填補愛情裡的空虛。
如同我上面那位女朋友，
她總是哭訴著,是她老公對她不忠在先,是她老公偷人在先,是她老公冷落她在先。
我想問她,那又如何?
是不是當出軌的行跡包裹上了曖昧的外衣
就能洗脫全部的證據?


就因為她的老公背叛在先了，所以她的曖昧就不算曖昧了?
就因為她的老公偷人再先,所以她跟別人眉來眼去也不算過分了?
就因為她的老公冷落她在先,所以她肆無忌憚的處處留情也變成了情里之中的事?
就因為她老公犯錯在先,所以她即使和別人曖昧了,也不算錯了?
狗屁!!!
寂寞不是曖昧的藉口，
不管她老公是否對不起她在先,都不能成為抹殺她和別人搞曖昧的事實.
實際上她就是當了婊子還要立貞潔牌坊來自欺欺人.
說著那樣的謊言,裝著那樣的純情,假借退讓的名義,為她自己的愛情高歌，
卻忘了她的曖昧也是傷人的，上天是公平的，
要知道
每個人的幸福總是有限的，
偷來的幸福總有一天要還


更多日誌推薦：

每一個不懂愛的人都會遇到一個懂愛的人，然後經歷一場撕心裂肺的愛情。不懂愛的人慢慢懂了。懂愛的人，卻不敢再愛了~

你付出的再多，換來的也只能是一句對不起（不是TA不領情，而是TA根本不愛你。你不是TA想要的那個人，就算你再完美也沒有用！）

不在身邊，不等於不愛你……

最疼痛的愛情，並不是你愛的人不愛你，也不是你不愛的人愛你，而是你愛的人，不夠愛你……

有種朋友，很喜歡，卻不忍動情……

有一種女孩，注定被剩下……

太心疼你，才選擇不放棄也不勉強……

友情愛情之間，並不是只有曖昧。如果你身邊也有那麼一個能夠給你溫暖的人，就請你好好珍惜……

其實大學，我們可以不需要愛情的……

不管你有沒有男朋友，有沒有女朋友，都過來把它讀完，寫的真是那麼回事

一生只談一次戀愛是最好的，經歷的太多了，會麻木；分離多了，會習慣；換戀人多了，會比較；到最後，你不會再相信愛情；你會自暴自棄；你會行屍走肉；你會與你不愛的人結婚，就這樣過一輩子。

不是不想戀愛，而是，不想隨便的戀愛……

單身並沒有什麼不好，你一樣可以關心你喜歡的人，這樣可以讓大眾覺得你是一個很好的朋友；而戀愛中的人，關心別人則會引發醋意，從愛情觀說也是對愛情不夠忠誠，但不關心別人則又失去很多友誼，一旦你分手了，就賠了夫人又折兵。所以現在單身，不是說你不嚮往愛情，而是證明你對未來的TA的一份癡情。
愛情晚點來，就不會走得太早。
我不需要靠失戀來成熟，我應該利用別人失戀的經驗成長起來。

一個優秀的人單身說明這人足夠優秀，一個再優秀的人隨意戀愛說明這人的優秀只是表面而已，真正希望對方好的，就是默默在背後關心對方。最好的承諾，不是愛你一萬年，而是根本不需要承諾。
學生時代，周圍接觸最多的人都年齡相仿，所以價值觀都差不多，都想著將來有個好工作，有個好戀人。正因為理想差不多，所以2個人在一起會很開心，也就很容易走到了一起。至於戀愛是否會影響學習，這裡就不說了，因為既有促進作用，也有消極作用，因人而異。
戀人不是靠尋找的，因為在沒有完全了解對方之前，對方可以為了吸引你暫時改變自己，而一旦你完全了解對方後，分手就指日可待了。所以戀愛應該是日久生情，彼此非常熟知後自然地走在一起，甚至無需表白。不要認為對方人很好就輕易妥協，人好不是愛情的全部，你們必須為愛情的將來做打算。

如果遇到一個你深愛的女孩，而你感覺她也喜歡你，大部分的人都是直接就開始交往了。這樣做的後果就是前面所說的，最後失去一個深愛的人。你應該以朋友的名義關心她，在畢業後仍保持聯繫，然後為了她努力工作。當你在事業上有所成就後再去找她，如果此時她仍在等你，說明你沒看錯人。
女孩，如果一個男生他很快就喜歡上妳，那麼他以後也會很快就喜歡上別人的。
在學校裡的愛情是無知的，在社會中的愛情可能是有目的的，只有遇到逆境仍走下去的愛情才是永恆的。
愛情不是和一個最適合自己的人在一起，而是遇到一個更適合自己的人時，能夠堅守自己對所愛的人作出的承諾。
愛情不是兩個人眼睛對視，而是兩個人的眼光對著同一個方向投視。

網上的“愛你，為你做這些事”看起來很感人，因為大部分人都不是這種愛情。愛情不是一種潮流，你要有自己的看法，在你的理想戀人未出現時，你要有毅力選擇一直單身，而不是找個替代品。當你做到後，網上傳的那些事，在你的愛情中是再基本不過的了。
男生，在談戀愛時不要抱著不適合就分手的想法，一定要慎重地考慮清楚，女朋友就是你未來的老婆，結婚只不過是多一張無用的紙而已，結婚並不是為愛情加了鎖，真正的愛情從來就不需要任何的束縛。一旦你選擇了戀愛，就要有一種責任感，你要為你父母的兒子、你老婆的丈夫、你未來孩子的爸爸負責！
雖然分手是另一段愛情的重新開始，但初戀只有一次，一個人在初戀中對愛情的嚮往是最多的，而一旦戀愛失敗，以後的每一次戀愛中，最難忘的還是初戀。
所以，不是不想戀愛，而是，不想隨便的戀愛！

不明白

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I love summer...

It's summer time again.....Yo...ho.....I really love summer....This is not just because of the reason that my birthday is on the summer time.......but actually that is because I really love to go to the beach on the summer time.......I can still remember when I was little my dad used to take me and my brother to the beach on every weekend.....I really miss those days.......

Anyway.......Yeah....It's time to get some new and pretty Bikinis lol....hahaha........Ai..yo.....The other day I was shopping with my friend and I just saw a really nice, pretty and hot set of Bikini........Ai yo.....I was thinking should I get that Bikini or not.....since I have already got a few sets of Bikinis already..........so I ended up not getting them lol......after that I just found myself really like that Bikini, and then I have changed my mind, since I really wanna get them.........I think I should have bought them on the other day.........ai.....yo........I am so regretting now.........

I dare I must get them as soon as possible......if not then.....I need to pay more effort to find a better one then that..........hahahhahahah........Since I will never let myself holding this kind of regretful feelings in my life for any longer....no no no no.....I can't let myself feel regret lol......Hahahaha........I think I am pretty stubborn sometimes.....hahaha.......

I Miss U Missing Me

周笔畅（笔笔）2010全新专辑《i·鱼·光·镜》
I Miss U Missing Me

作词：Diane Warren
作曲：Diane Warren

someone told me you found somebody
found somebody new
I'm happy for you
maybe that's why I don't hear from you
like I used to like a faded photograph
our moment's in the past
but sometimes,sometimes
I miss you missing me
calling me on the phone
asking me how I'm doing
asking if I'm alone
I miss you missing me
I miss you missing me
I miss you missing me

guess you won't be asking 'bout me
when you see my friends
guess that had to end
I won't be hearing
what you've been up to
like I used to had our time
our time has passed
no there's no going back
but sometimes,sometimes
I miss you missing me
calling me on the phone
asking me how I'm doing
asking if I'm alone
I miss you missing me
I miss you missing me
I miss you missing me
when someone calls me up at night
I hold my breath I close my eyes
I wait and hope and pray it will be you
calling me on the phone
asking me how I'm doing
asking if I'm alone
I miss you missing me
I miss you missing me
I miss you missing me
I miss you missing me
I miss you missing me
I miss you missing me

Work hard

I have already known the fact that I need to work hard for my future. However, this fact has been going more and more important for me.

Firstly, I am now an adult. I have started to realize more and more about getting into the society. More importantly, I am now being as a student and still need to work hard for my family's business. There are more and more pressure coming up and needed to be faced.

On the other hand, there are so many things that I really wanna going to complete or try in my life.

Goals are going to motive me moving better in my life.

Take every minute count in my life is always the best I can to.

Seems hard but easy.....seems nothing but alot......Busy can be the reason but this will not be in every season.....

Simple words are being told and that's really mean alot for me. I guess this is the same as you. Communications are often the most important thing between people.

Before the day, I though we are no longer connected. Since we haven't talked for awhile, and we are both busying at work and everything.

Currently this is the period of the end of a financial year, everything has to be done and sorted out. Also my parents have just completed some of the documents for the settlement and still there are alot to deal with.

On the other hand, I have started to take the responsibility of handling the business of my parents. For the legal reason, a limited company can only be owned by at least two or more owners, therefore my dad can only transfer his part of his ownership of the business and properties into both my mum and mine name.

From the point of view of my grandparents, leaving Hong Kong and going to study aboard is no longer a choice for me at the moment. Since they want me to help my mum in her business and settling the payments for my dad.

Sometimes i ask myself the same question about in relations to the situation. I really wanna know how much longer can I sustain in this relationship. Everything seems to stop us going further, however I just can't really give myself an answer to the question. Perhaps the answer is not hard to find and maybe its easy enough for me to answer myself as well.

If I were in the past, I think I would have probably given up already. However, I think my mind is no longer the same as the past, since i couldn't find any intention to give up because of all the situations.

Even we are always being busy, but still we are happy to know that we are always there for each other. One or two words or even a sentence from msn or on the phone could have already lighted up each other's day.

Perhaps we are both an independent and ambitious person, we are ambitious for our goals from work and success from lives. Therefore we are more than willing to stay alone and staying apart and focus on each others lives, but taking into account that we are always viewing and trying to reach the same future. There are somethings deep in my mind that I have realized since before, and I really got to understand how important it is to me.

I know I will be over thinking sometimes, and will worry too much about somethings that doesn't really matter for this situation. Therefore I know that I really have to learn about not to think too much and just let it flow. I know this is a bit strange in what I want to say but I do think these are really true for me at the moment, "Everything can seem to be hard but actually is easy for me, and somethings can seem to be nothing but alot for us.

沉默

已經有一陣子沒有通話了，感覺越來越奇怪，也不知該說什麼。兩邊的電話線雖然是接上的，但卻好像缺乏了些什麼的，就算缺少了的不是電，不是線，大概也就少了一種聯系，默契，了解。

不能說得上很在乎，但也不能說一點也不在乎，大概還不是該放棄的時候吧。一切也就只好順其自然吧。可能我還未能說服自己放棄吧，也可能是在學習改變自己的壞習慣吧。算吧，不想太多了！

Nobody Knows It But Me

Wish i had told her how i feel
Maybe she'd be here right now

But instead

I pretend that I'm glad you went away
These four walls close in more everyday
And I'm dying inside
And nobody knows it but me
yeah hmmmm

Like a clown i put on a show
Paint it real even if nobody knows
And I'm crying inside
And nobody knows it but me
Yeah hmmm

Why didn't i say
The things i needed to say
How could i let my angel get away
Now my world is just a tumbling down
I can say it so clearly
But your no where around

The nights are lonely and the days are so sad
And i just keep thinking about the love that we had
And I'm missing you
And nobody knows it but me
Mm ya mmm ya ya

I carry a smile when I'm broken in two
And I'm nobody without someone like you
And I'm trembling inside
And nobody knows it but me
Yeah yeah yeah

Lie awake its a quarter past 3
I'd scream it at night if I thought you'd hear me
Ya my heart is calling you
And nobody knows it but me
Baby

How blue can i get
You could ask my heart
But like a jigsaw puzzle its been torn all apart
A million words couldn't say
Just how i feel
A million years from now you know I'll be loving you still

The nights are lonely
And the days are so sad
And i just keep thinking about the love that we had
And I'm missing you
And nobody knows it but me

Yeah yeah oooooooo yeah ay ooooooooooooooooooooo ooooooo

Nobody, nobody but me

Tomorrow morning I'm hitting the dusty road
Gonna find you where ever
ever you might go
And I'm gonna unload my heart
And hope you come back to me

Ya said when

The nights are lonely and the days are so sad
And i just keep thinking about the love that we had
And I'm missing you
And nobody knows it but me (repeat 3x)

Sorry for the Stupid Things

Sorry For The Stupid Things lyrics
Songwriters: Simmons, Daryl; Edmonds, Kenneth Babyface;

Sometimes we wish for the better
When we have it good as it gets
Sometimes the grass isn't greener
As soon as we find out, we forget

Sometimes a fool doesn't know he's a fool
Sometimes a dog, he don't know he's a dog
Sometimes I do stupid things to you
When I really don't mean it at all

Sometimes a man is gon' be a man
It's not an excuse, it's just how it is
Sometimes the wrong, don't know that they wrong
Sometimes the strong, ain't always so strong

Sometimes a girl is gon' be a girl
She don't wanna deal with all the drama in your world
God knows I don't mean to give it to you
So girl, I'm sorry for the stupid things, I wish I didn't do but I do

Oh
Oh no
Oh

Sometimes I wish I was smarter
Wish I was a bit more like you
Not making stupid decisions made at the last minute
You live to regret when it's through

Well sometimes a fool, doesn't know he's a fool
And sometimes a dog, he don't know he's a dog
But sometimes I do stupid things to you
When I really didn't mean it at all

Sometimes a man is gon' be a man
It's not an excuse, it's just how it is
Sometimes the wrong, don't know that they wrong
Sometimes the strong, ain't always be strong

Sometimes a girl is gon' be a girl
She don't wanna deal with all the drama in your world
God knows I don't mean to give it to you
So girl, I'm sorry for the stupid things, I wish I didn't do but I do

Sometimes a fool doesn't know he's a fool
And sometimes a dog, he don't know he's a dog
Sometimes I do stupid things to you
When I really didn't mean it at all, at all, at all

Sometimes a man is gon' be a man
It's not an excuse, it's just how it is
Sometimes the wrong, don't know that they wrong
Sometimes the strong, ain't always so strong

Sometimes a girl is gon' be a girl
She don't wanna deal with all the drama in your world
God knows I don't mean to give it to you
So girl, I'm sorry for the stupid things, I wish I didn't do but I do

Sometimes a man is gon' be a man
It's not an excuse, it's just how it is
Sometimes the wrong, don't know that they wrong
Sometimes the strong, strong

I Care About You

Babyface- I Care About You
written by Babyface (1997)
performed by Milestone

Sometimes I feel so alone (baby girl)
I call your heart
But there's no one at home
Taking a toll on my pride (pride)
I'm reaching out
But there's no one inside

You know
It doesn't feel right, when I look in your eyes
I know love is blind, but the heart doesn't lie
I'll ask one more time, maybe this time you'll try
So tell me girl what's deep in your heart

[HOOK x2]
Girl I care about you
I'm there for you
So why don't you care for me
Like I care about you

I spend like all of my day (baby)
Trying to cess out just how things got this way
I thought that we were in love
But I swear right now I don't know what you want

I make sure that I give you quality time
But lately I feel you're not home by desire
But still I'm gonna try, to give you the love of my life
In hopes that you, that you will open up your heart

[HOOK x2]
Girl I care about you
I'm there for you
So why don't you care for me
Like I care about you

Sometimes I'm not sure
I'm all you've got
Sometimes I'm not sure you love me or not
There's one thing that I'm certain of
Girl I care for you
And the one thing that I want is that you care for me too

[HOOK x2]

Drama, Love, and Relationship

beautiful song

It's not about who's right, or who's wrong
It's not about who's weaker, or who's strong
It's not about who's innocent, or who's fault
It ain't really about that kind of thing at all
It's not about who does it, who done it, or did it to who
Don't matter if the both of you lose
It's really not bout nothing, except for me and you

It's all about drama, and love, and relationships
And when the going gets tough, you deal with it
And you don't ever, you never walk away from it
You hold on, and be strong
It's all about drama, and trust, and making it
If your somebody, mess up, you take it in
Don't let no body come between you you just stay with it
And hold on and be strong
And Hold on

It's not about the stupid things that we say
We're always saying stupid things anyway
Its not about the secrecy or the lies
Girl everybody got a secret to hide
It's not about who was it, or was she, whose creeping on who
Won't matter if the both of us lose
It's really not about nothing, except for me and you

It's all about drama, and love, and relationships
And when the going gets tough, you deal with it
And you don't ever, you never walk away from it
You hold on, and be strong
It's all about drama, and trust, and making it
If your somebody, mess up, you take it in
Don't let no body come between you you just stay with it
And hold on and be strong
And Hold on

Ain't about your pride
Ain't about yourself
It's about the two of you, and no one else
Ain't about the hurt
Ain't about the lies
Ain't about the crazy things thats running through your mind
It's about the love that's suppose to last and never die

Its all about drama, and love, and relationships
And when the going gets tough, you deal with it
And you don't ever, you never walk away from it
You hold on, and be strong
It's all about drama, and trust, and making it
If your somebody, mess up, you take it in
Don't let nobody come between you you just stay with it
And hold on and be strong
And Hold on

Water Runs Dry

Water Runs Dry

We don't even talk anymore
And we don't even know what we argue about
Don't even say I love you no more
Cause sayin' how we feel is no longer allowed
Some people will work things out
And some just don't know how to change

Let's don't wait till the water runs dry
We might watch our whole lives pass us by
Let's don't wait till the water runs dry
We'll make the biggest mistake of our lives
Don't do it baby

Now they can see the tears in our eyes
But we deny the pain that lies deep in our hearts
Well maybe that's a pain we can't hide
Cause everybody knows that we're both torn apart
Why do we hurt each other
Why do we push love away

Some people will work things out
And some don't know how to change

Let's don't wait till the water runs dry
We might watch our whole lives pass us by
Let's don't wait till the water runs dry
We'll make the biggest mistake of our lives
Don't do it baby
Boyz II Men Water Runs Dry