人生在世,有時候就是跳脫不出這個框框--幸福
有個富翁，什麼都有，卻總悶悶不樂，老覺得還少了點什麼。一日，他經過市集，看見一個衣衫襤褸的乞丐，便很輕蔑的扔了一個小錢，並調侃說：『像你這樣一無所有的活著，還有什麼意思﹖』
『喔﹗大人，我雖然沒錢、沒勢，可是，我有一樣您沒有的寶貝。』
『哦﹗你有什麼寶貝﹖我可以出高價向你買，快說﹗快說﹗』
『只怕你買不起﹗』
『笑話！我不信天下有我買不起的東西。』
『這樣東西它不賣的，因為它不能賣，它是一種感覺--就是幸福。』
擁抱幸福其實很簡單，是我們把它物化，類型化了﹗
幸福只是一種內在心靈感覺，在某一剎那，心中的某一根隱密的弦，忽然被牽動，泛出圈圈甜美的滿足感，那便是幸福。
每個人的感情世界，都有如隱密的宮殿，年齡越增加，門戶的防備越森嚴，於是，要進入其中，要被撥動，便越不容易，於是，常常覺得不快樂，離幸福越來越遠，而當一個人覺得幸福離自己而去時，便會想藉著獲取更多的物質擁有來填補。
結果，常常是擁有的越多，越覺空虛，越不快樂。
在生活中，有太多微不足道的小事，在在地觸動著我們，只是被我們忽略掉了，我們總『以為』，追求幸福是件大事，一個大目標，一些大收獲，結果卻離幸福越來越遠。
獨自去看早場電影，在小攤吃碗陽春麵，再叫一盤臭豆腐，然後搭公車回家睡午覺，對我而言，是幸福。
帶狗狗去散步，看牠興奮地奔跑，銀灰色地捲毛在陽光下閃閃發亮，那麼健康，那麼美麗，心中充滿著說不出地愉悅，我知道，那也是一種幸福。
在公車上，讓位給一位長者，老太太一迭聲『謝謝』，叫我好生溫暖；想到自己尚能站立的雙腿，不覺有種幸福感浮了上來。
各位朋友，幸福不是生長在深山峻嶺上的仙草奇花，它就像存在你身邊那些不起眼的小花、小草一樣，只要你彎下身，只要你張開手臂，只要你敞開心，就能將它擁抱入懷，真的，就這麼簡單。
Friday 30 April 2010
Thursday 29 April 2010
張小嫻-金石良言
* 放下尊嚴，放下個性，放下固執，都只是因為放不下一個人。
* 婚姻像穿鞋，好不好看別人知道，舒不舒服自己明白。
* 如果心境不甜，那杯咖啡加再多的糖，也是苦的。
* 微笑並不難學習，難的是如何讓微笑成為習慣。
* 做人最怕自尊又放不低，自信又拎不起。
* 人生不在乎得到甚麼，只在乎做過甚麼。
* 做人皆有一死，但並非人人都活得有意義。
* 人生的目標不是要擺脫問題，而是要積極地面對。
* 只要在每一個階段都有得著和快樂，就應順應去接受。
* 人逢順境不逞強，身處逆境不示弱。
* 人要從困難中爬出來，從失敗中站起來。
* 從不幸中感受恩典，從痛苦中認識快樂。
* 婚姻像穿鞋，好不好看別人知道，舒不舒服自己明白。
* 如果心境不甜，那杯咖啡加再多的糖，也是苦的。
* 微笑並不難學習，難的是如何讓微笑成為習慣。
* 做人最怕自尊又放不低，自信又拎不起。
* 人生不在乎得到甚麼，只在乎做過甚麼。
* 做人皆有一死，但並非人人都活得有意義。
* 人生的目標不是要擺脫問題，而是要積極地面對。
* 只要在每一個階段都有得著和快樂，就應順應去接受。
* 人逢順境不逞強，身處逆境不示弱。
* 人要從困難中爬出來，從失敗中站起來。
* 從不幸中感受恩典，從痛苦中認識快樂。
愛不輕許
愛，絕對不是缺了就找，更不是累了就換。
找一個能一起吃苦的而不是找一個能一起享樂的
找一個能一起承擔的而不是找一個能一起做夢的
找一個能對你負責的而不是找一個對愛情負責的
愛情是盲目的生活是現實的
因為愛情只不過是人類為了逃避現實而衍生的產品
為了逃避現實我尋找愛情
為了尋找愛情我失去真情
失去了真情才發現早已身陷虛情.........
那天聚會，朋友帶了她的朋友來參加，忽然間你發現，她的談話，她的舉止，都是你想像中的那樣。
你曾夢想過有一天，當你戀愛，你的她，是這麼個樣。
似乎她一笑，你就神魂顛倒，所以你靠近她，跟她講話，拉東扯西，只希望再看她笑一下。
漸漸的，你有活動都會想找她，千方百計的想約她，她的出現，讓你心跳加速，她的失約，讓你搥胸頓足。
你問到了她的電話，開始嘗試找她談天，聊生活，聊學業，聊興趣，聊看法，無所不用其極的修飾自己的遣詞用句，只為了給一個好印象，甚至營造兩人很合得來的假象。
配合她的興趣，你開始改變自己，陪她看畫展，陪她喝咖啡，陪她看電影，陪她去逛街，想盡辦法提高見面的頻率，因為你看不到她，你會茶不思飯不想的心煩意亂。
你們熟悉了，開始你找她，她找你，在看電影時，你會想碰碰她的手，排隊時，你會想拉拉她的肩，喝咖啡時，你開始找一些親暱的話題，用餐時，你會想切塊牛肉用你的叉子餵給她吃，逛街時口渴買飲料，你會希望她喝不完而跟你共享一杯奶茶。
再來你學會，心情不好時故意給她看到，讓她看到你皺起的眉頭，看到你眼神的落寞，並期待她能主動關心問候。
因此，你們開始交換心事，開心時共享，傷心時互相安慰，在適當的時候，你瞭解了她的個性與想法，清楚了她的脆弱與堅強。
哪天，你故意引她傷心或動心，製造了浪漫的機會，夜裡的星空下，你們相擁，感受來自她的體溫，甚至她髮尾的香味。
情不自禁，你用手撫去她的淚痕，當她抬頭望了你一眼，看著她眼裡殘存的淚光，用手輕碰她的臉頰，你會告訴她，你喜歡她，你將手劃過她的臉際，托起她的下巴，輕輕的吻了她。
你以為愛情是什麼??
一點點的動心，一點點的衝動，一個擁抱一個吻??
天真的小孩們，日劇看太多了，痞子蔡的文章看太多了。
這也許是愛情的一部分，但絕對不是大部分。
愛情的主體是生活，一起生活。
你能陪她一時的難過，但你能陪她所有的壓力嗎??
你能給身體的溫度，但你能給生活的方向嗎??
你可曾想像當熱情褪去，擁抱對你已經沒任何吸引力，你們如何走下去??
天真的小孩，愛，絕對不是缺了就找，更不是累了就換。
你不能怪她中途抽身，因為她在愛中看不到生活。
生活，才是愛情的目的，這裡的生活不是一個人好好活，是兩個人如何一起好好過。
愛，不輕許
找一個能一起吃苦的而不是找一個能一起享樂的
找一個能一起承擔的而不是找一個能一起做夢的
找一個能對你負責的而不是找一個對愛情負責的
愛情是盲目的生活是現實的
因為愛情只不過是人類為了逃避現實而衍生的產品
為了逃避現實我尋找愛情
為了尋找愛情我失去真情
失去了真情才發現早已身陷虛情.........
那天聚會，朋友帶了她的朋友來參加，忽然間你發現，她的談話，她的舉止，都是你想像中的那樣。
你曾夢想過有一天，當你戀愛，你的她，是這麼個樣。
似乎她一笑，你就神魂顛倒，所以你靠近她，跟她講話，拉東扯西，只希望再看她笑一下。
漸漸的，你有活動都會想找她，千方百計的想約她，她的出現，讓你心跳加速，她的失約，讓你搥胸頓足。
你問到了她的電話，開始嘗試找她談天，聊生活，聊學業，聊興趣，聊看法，無所不用其極的修飾自己的遣詞用句，只為了給一個好印象，甚至營造兩人很合得來的假象。
配合她的興趣，你開始改變自己，陪她看畫展，陪她喝咖啡，陪她看電影，陪她去逛街，想盡辦法提高見面的頻率，因為你看不到她，你會茶不思飯不想的心煩意亂。
你們熟悉了，開始你找她，她找你，在看電影時，你會想碰碰她的手，排隊時，你會想拉拉她的肩，喝咖啡時，你開始找一些親暱的話題，用餐時，你會想切塊牛肉用你的叉子餵給她吃，逛街時口渴買飲料，你會希望她喝不完而跟你共享一杯奶茶。
再來你學會，心情不好時故意給她看到，讓她看到你皺起的眉頭，看到你眼神的落寞，並期待她能主動關心問候。
因此，你們開始交換心事，開心時共享，傷心時互相安慰，在適當的時候，你瞭解了她的個性與想法，清楚了她的脆弱與堅強。
哪天，你故意引她傷心或動心，製造了浪漫的機會，夜裡的星空下，你們相擁，感受來自她的體溫，甚至她髮尾的香味。
情不自禁，你用手撫去她的淚痕，當她抬頭望了你一眼，看著她眼裡殘存的淚光，用手輕碰她的臉頰，你會告訴她，你喜歡她，你將手劃過她的臉際，托起她的下巴，輕輕的吻了她。
你以為愛情是什麼??
一點點的動心，一點點的衝動，一個擁抱一個吻??
天真的小孩們，日劇看太多了，痞子蔡的文章看太多了。
這也許是愛情的一部分，但絕對不是大部分。
愛情的主體是生活，一起生活。
你能陪她一時的難過，但你能陪她所有的壓力嗎??
你能給身體的溫度，但你能給生活的方向嗎??
你可曾想像當熱情褪去，擁抱對你已經沒任何吸引力，你們如何走下去??
天真的小孩，愛，絕對不是缺了就找，更不是累了就換。
你不能怪她中途抽身，因為她在愛中看不到生活。
生活，才是愛情的目的，這裡的生活不是一個人好好活，是兩個人如何一起好好過。
愛，不輕許
重新做人
鄭雋詠
她是一個年輕的生物學家，智商120，是人所皆知的聰明女人，她有頂尖的智慧，連研究的項目也頂尖兒。
她認為人的腦袋是掌控一切的最精密機能，所以選擇了腦部來研究，在她的工作室裡，有許多裝著不同腦袋的玻璃瓶，每日陪伴她過日子。
某一天，她開始戀愛了，終日陶醉於為另一半織毛衣、做蛋糕、看愛情小說、打扮自己這些玩意，把工作棄於一角。
研究院催促她加快工作進度，她就索性辭掉了職位。
旁人都感到非常詫異，問她為什麼會放棄機會，甘於做個小女人。
「放棄? 我根本沒有放棄，他們都不知道，我已有了研究結果。」
「三年時間，你已經知道所有? 你真是天才。」
「我用一日已經知道了。」
「一日? 我不明白。」
「從認識他那天開始，我知道主宰我的原來不是腦袋，而是我的心，我失去了所有的邏輯思維，只是分分秒秒都想著他。所以我的研究是起錯了題，就算再做三十年也是枉費，我以前會追隨那一瓶一瓶的腦袋過日子，現在我重新做人，追隨我的心，全力去愛他…….」
這樣的一個小故事，其實不是<重新做人>這首歌給我的靈感，而是出於跟女性朋友傾談後的點點感想。
我們發現，不論怎樣，心總是比腦走前一步，支配了我們的一切。
我們更得出一個結論，就是要好好保護自己的心，不可以隨便給人傷害。
以前我也太不懂得這個道理，讓自己成了受傷害的人，今天，我想我也決定要重新做人。
她是一個年輕的生物學家，智商120，是人所皆知的聰明女人，她有頂尖的智慧，連研究的項目也頂尖兒。
她認為人的腦袋是掌控一切的最精密機能，所以選擇了腦部來研究，在她的工作室裡，有許多裝著不同腦袋的玻璃瓶，每日陪伴她過日子。
某一天，她開始戀愛了，終日陶醉於為另一半織毛衣、做蛋糕、看愛情小說、打扮自己這些玩意，把工作棄於一角。
研究院催促她加快工作進度，她就索性辭掉了職位。
旁人都感到非常詫異，問她為什麼會放棄機會，甘於做個小女人。
「放棄? 我根本沒有放棄，他們都不知道，我已有了研究結果。」
「三年時間，你已經知道所有? 你真是天才。」
「我用一日已經知道了。」
「一日? 我不明白。」
「從認識他那天開始，我知道主宰我的原來不是腦袋，而是我的心，我失去了所有的邏輯思維，只是分分秒秒都想著他。所以我的研究是起錯了題，就算再做三十年也是枉費，我以前會追隨那一瓶一瓶的腦袋過日子，現在我重新做人，追隨我的心，全力去愛他…….」
這樣的一個小故事，其實不是<重新做人>這首歌給我的靈感，而是出於跟女性朋友傾談後的點點感想。
我們發現，不論怎樣，心總是比腦走前一步，支配了我們的一切。
我們更得出一個結論，就是要好好保護自己的心，不可以隨便給人傷害。
以前我也太不懂得這個道理，讓自己成了受傷害的人，今天，我想我也決定要重新做人。
兩個人在一起有三件事很重要
我覺得這篇文章寫的真好，
兩個不同生長環境的人要在一起，已經是很困難的事了，
而彼此能相互溝通、尊重與珍惜的人更是少之又少。
因為許多人往往都是自私地站在自己的立場去想、去做，
以為這就是對方所需要的，以致常常意氣用事，痛了自己也苦了別人。
所以愛一個人不是給她你要的，因為你要的她不一定要啊!
而是要給她「她要的」，這樣才是真正愛她。
所以，兩個人在一起有三件事很重要：溝通‧尊重‧珍惜
◆溝通
兩個人一定要會溝通，溝通可不是件容易的事喔~
就連我這個自認是「溝通大師」的都不一定會溝通呢！
我就說「炒蛋事件」好了!
我跟我老婆結婚才三個月的時候...就發現我不會溝通了!
就有一天，我心血來潮突然就跟她說：
「我今晚作一道世界名菜給你吃!」
平常晚上，我家都是吃三菜一湯。
她一做完兩菜一湯就離開廚房，
說要拭目看我作出什麼世界名菜來給她吃，
讓她有個驚喜我就拿起三個蛋，打散，
唰~ 下鍋，加蔥花...，再加醬油~?
這是最重要的!!
小時候不是都吃媽媽的醬油炒蛋嗎?
這可是含有濃濃的母愛的香味呢!
好啦!?起鍋~ 世界名菜---「醬油炒蛋」上桌!
她走出來，一看，「這是什麼?」
「蛋啊!炒蛋啊~」
她是外省人，所以她們從小吃的蛋都是加鹽巴的。
我是本省人，所以都是加醬油的。
「我不要吃!這不是炒蛋。」
這女人怎麼這麼硬啊?!
醬油炒蛋就不是蛋嗎？分別是少見多怪嘛!黑蛋當然也是蛋啊~
「不吃就不吃!」
她筷子一摔，還真的就不吃了。
碰!還甩房門。
自此而後，只要我每次炒蛋，內心、腦袋就開始掙扎...
「要加鹽巴?還是加醬油?我應該要讓她才對...不對?」!
哼！這一步不能讓!這可是攸關我大男人的面子，
尤其童年的回憶、媽媽的母愛、還有省籍意識在裡面的ㄋㄟ~
怎麼能輕易就讓妳?!
每次上桌的醬油炒蛋，她就當作沒看到那道菜。
我們就這樣過了五年。
很不可思議吧！
為了個炒蛋吵了五年，
但後來突然有一天福至心靈，我終於想通了!
我們跟小朋友玩不是都會讓他嗎!
因為他年紀小，不懂事嘛，所以我讓她!
而有時老婆不懂事、幼稚的時候，我又何必認真呢！
有一天我就炒了加鹽巴的蛋上桌了。
唷！我們家的黑蛋怎麼變白蛋啦?
就沒聽過黑人會變白人的，我們家的黑蛋竟然也會變白蛋呀!」
我這時啥也沒說，只嘿嘿乾笑了兩聲。
可是，你知道嗎？
過兩天，換我在桌上看見黑蛋了。她炒的。
所以，愛一個人不是要給她你要的，你要的她不一定要啊!
而是要給她「她要的」!切記。
要把對方的需要當作你的責任，這樣才是真正愛她。
■＝□＝■＝□＝■＝□＝■＝□＝■
◆尊重
男生在發展關係的同時能尊重對方的意願，
能把主控權交給女生的才是好男生。
艾斯德講的是「兩個人在一起要學會尊重彼此的任何決定」。
意見不合可以溝通，
因為無論從人權、人性來說，男女生都是站在平等地位上的。
我告訴朋友---尊重，是最重要的!
如果他(她)會尊重你，意即什麼都好，都是能商量的。
會把你放在平等地位上看待的這男生或女生就不會糟到哪裡去。
■＝□＝■＝□＝■＝□＝■＝□＝■
◆珍惜
我們要珍惜每一段關係。
假設你還能活60年好了!
等你60年後，快死之前，請你拿起一隻筆和一張紙，
想一想，寫下你這一生中「真正愛過」的10個人。
爸媽兄弟姊妹都可以，是真正愛過的喔!
那種只愛三個禮拜的不算是真愛。
能寫到超過是最好，不到10 個也沒關係。
我現在想，我就好像寫不來10個呢！
我就連我是不是真正愛我爸媽都不太確定。
因為你真正愛一個人會一年只見他三次面嗎?
不會吧！一定是巴不得每天都能看到他(她)的是吧！
可是現在都有自己的家庭了，所以一年大概也只回去三次而已。
紙翻過來再寫，這一生中「真正愛過你」的10個人，
如果你真能寫到10個那你可真的很幸運很幸福了!!
還有一個小故事!
大意是說一個即將升職的男人，
因為她老婆突然罹患老年癡呆症，
朋友們都建議他把老婆送到醫院治療兼療養。,
他考慮了一星期後遞出了辭呈。
朋友們都很驚訝、錯愕，紛紛詢問他為什麼要放棄升遷的機會呢?
他的人生就將要達到最高峰了啊！
他說：
「我只想到我在神前面承諾過，不論她貧窮、疾病、
變老變醜我要愛她、照顧她一輩子。」
兩個不同生長環境的人要在一起，已經是很困難的事了，
而彼此能相互溝通、尊重與珍惜的人更是少之又少。
因為許多人往往都是自私地站在自己的立場去想、去做，
以為這就是對方所需要的，以致常常意氣用事，痛了自己也苦了別人。
所以愛一個人不是給她你要的，因為你要的她不一定要啊!
而是要給她「她要的」，這樣才是真正愛她。
所以，兩個人在一起有三件事很重要：溝通‧尊重‧珍惜
◆溝通
兩個人一定要會溝通，溝通可不是件容易的事喔~
就連我這個自認是「溝通大師」的都不一定會溝通呢！
我就說「炒蛋事件」好了!
我跟我老婆結婚才三個月的時候...就發現我不會溝通了!
就有一天，我心血來潮突然就跟她說：
「我今晚作一道世界名菜給你吃!」
平常晚上，我家都是吃三菜一湯。
她一做完兩菜一湯就離開廚房，
說要拭目看我作出什麼世界名菜來給她吃，
讓她有個驚喜我就拿起三個蛋，打散，
唰~ 下鍋，加蔥花...，再加醬油~?
這是最重要的!!
小時候不是都吃媽媽的醬油炒蛋嗎?
這可是含有濃濃的母愛的香味呢!
好啦!?起鍋~ 世界名菜---「醬油炒蛋」上桌!
她走出來，一看，「這是什麼?」
「蛋啊!炒蛋啊~」
她是外省人，所以她們從小吃的蛋都是加鹽巴的。
我是本省人，所以都是加醬油的。
「我不要吃!這不是炒蛋。」
這女人怎麼這麼硬啊?!
醬油炒蛋就不是蛋嗎？分別是少見多怪嘛!黑蛋當然也是蛋啊~
「不吃就不吃!」
她筷子一摔，還真的就不吃了。
碰!還甩房門。
自此而後，只要我每次炒蛋，內心、腦袋就開始掙扎...
「要加鹽巴?還是加醬油?我應該要讓她才對...不對?」!
哼！這一步不能讓!這可是攸關我大男人的面子，
尤其童年的回憶、媽媽的母愛、還有省籍意識在裡面的ㄋㄟ~
怎麼能輕易就讓妳?!
每次上桌的醬油炒蛋，她就當作沒看到那道菜。
我們就這樣過了五年。
很不可思議吧！
為了個炒蛋吵了五年，
但後來突然有一天福至心靈，我終於想通了!
我們跟小朋友玩不是都會讓他嗎!
因為他年紀小，不懂事嘛，所以我讓她!
而有時老婆不懂事、幼稚的時候，我又何必認真呢！
有一天我就炒了加鹽巴的蛋上桌了。
唷！我們家的黑蛋怎麼變白蛋啦?
就沒聽過黑人會變白人的，我們家的黑蛋竟然也會變白蛋呀!」
我這時啥也沒說，只嘿嘿乾笑了兩聲。
可是，你知道嗎？
過兩天，換我在桌上看見黑蛋了。她炒的。
所以，愛一個人不是要給她你要的，你要的她不一定要啊!
而是要給她「她要的」!切記。
要把對方的需要當作你的責任，這樣才是真正愛她。
■＝□＝■＝□＝■＝□＝■＝□＝■
◆尊重
男生在發展關係的同時能尊重對方的意願，
能把主控權交給女生的才是好男生。
艾斯德講的是「兩個人在一起要學會尊重彼此的任何決定」。
意見不合可以溝通，
因為無論從人權、人性來說，男女生都是站在平等地位上的。
我告訴朋友---尊重，是最重要的!
如果他(她)會尊重你，意即什麼都好，都是能商量的。
會把你放在平等地位上看待的這男生或女生就不會糟到哪裡去。
■＝□＝■＝□＝■＝□＝■＝□＝■
◆珍惜
我們要珍惜每一段關係。
假設你還能活60年好了!
等你60年後，快死之前，請你拿起一隻筆和一張紙，
想一想，寫下你這一生中「真正愛過」的10個人。
爸媽兄弟姊妹都可以，是真正愛過的喔!
那種只愛三個禮拜的不算是真愛。
能寫到超過是最好，不到10 個也沒關係。
我現在想，我就好像寫不來10個呢！
我就連我是不是真正愛我爸媽都不太確定。
因為你真正愛一個人會一年只見他三次面嗎?
不會吧！一定是巴不得每天都能看到他(她)的是吧！
可是現在都有自己的家庭了，所以一年大概也只回去三次而已。
紙翻過來再寫，這一生中「真正愛過你」的10個人，
如果你真能寫到10個那你可真的很幸運很幸福了!!
還有一個小故事!
大意是說一個即將升職的男人，
因為她老婆突然罹患老年癡呆症，
朋友們都建議他把老婆送到醫院治療兼療養。,
他考慮了一星期後遞出了辭呈。
朋友們都很驚訝、錯愕，紛紛詢問他為什麼要放棄升遷的機會呢?
他的人生就將要達到最高峰了啊！
他說：
「我只想到我在神前面承諾過，不論她貧窮、疾病、
變老變醜我要愛她、照顧她一輩子。」
當你愛上了她/他
當你愛上了她/他
當你正在忙時，卻把手機開著，等著她/他的電話...
你已經愛上她/他了
如果你喜歡和她兩個人單獨漫步...
你已經愛上她/他了
當你和她/他在一起時，你會假裝不注意她/他，
但是當她/他離開妳的視線時，你會急著尋找她/他...
你已經愛上她/他了
當她/他受傷或生病時，你會很關心她/他，替她/他著急...
你已經愛上她/他了
當她/他和別人要好時，你會感到吃味...
你已經愛上她/他了
當她/他把臉貼近你時，你會感到臉紅，心跳加速...
你已經愛上她/他了
當你看到她/他那甜美的笑時，你的嘴角會揚起一絲得意的笑...
你已經愛上她/他了
當你看到這篇文章時，心裡想到某個人...
那麼你肯定已經愛上她/他了
當你正在忙時，卻把手機開著，等著她/他的電話...
你已經愛上她/他了
如果你喜歡和她兩個人單獨漫步...
你已經愛上她/他了
當你和她/他在一起時，你會假裝不注意她/他，
但是當她/他離開妳的視線時，你會急著尋找她/他...
你已經愛上她/他了
當她/他受傷或生病時，你會很關心她/他，替她/他著急...
你已經愛上她/他了
當她/他和別人要好時，你會感到吃味...
你已經愛上她/他了
當她/他把臉貼近你時，你會感到臉紅，心跳加速...
你已經愛上她/他了
當你看到她/他那甜美的笑時，你的嘴角會揚起一絲得意的笑...
你已經愛上她/他了
當你看到這篇文章時，心裡想到某個人...
那麼你肯定已經愛上她/他了
相信
我其實一直都相信着.....
可能我的想法對其他人而言是非常奇怪，但我的心卻依然堅信着一件事和感覺....
I am not sure whatever will happen in the future, in my heart I am still beleving in one thing. This feeling is really strange, since no one can ever influence or change this belief in my heart. I can't really explain it.
It's like when you believe on a region. You just believe on something do exist in this world without without any evidence or actually seeing them........
可能我的想法對其他人而言是非常奇怪，但我的心卻依然堅信着一件事和感覺....
I am not sure whatever will happen in the future, in my heart I am still beleving in one thing. This feeling is really strange, since no one can ever influence or change this belief in my heart. I can't really explain it.
It's like when you believe on a region. You just believe on something do exist in this world without without any evidence or actually seeing them........
Monday 26 April 2010
I wanna grow old with you.....
After the trip of Macau with my friends and family, I realized some things from the conversation with my grandma! My grandma has talked to me about the story of herelf and my grandpa! How she has met my grandpa, how they have fallen in love with each other, how my grandma has chosen to let my grandpa to come to hong kong, how she has been blamed by the others about her decision on that time, and how different was her way of thinking has lead her to what she has got at the moment!
I am amazed by how my grandma's way of thinking is really open-minded! She told me that she really wanted to view the world when she was still young. Since she wa born in the countryside and she has chosen to leave home and tried her best to get an opportunity to stay and to study in the city by herself. She met my grandpa accidentally, and they fall in love with each other in the first sight. Then they have decided to get married to each other. At that time they had nothing but just thirty something Rmb. They worked hard together and believed in the same belief. My grandparents' living standard has started to improve, after my aunties and mum were born, eventhough they were not very rich, still they were very happy with what they had got at that time.
However, my grandma started to wish to move to somewhere else from China. At that time, everyone was critizing my grandma's decision, and so as my grandpa. Everyone thought my grandma was crazy and stupid to let my grandpa to go to hong kong, even my grandpa wasn't really happy to leave my grandma by himself. After a while, my mum and older auntie's visa were approved and being allowed to move to hong kong. Then my grandpa, older auntie and my mum all moved to hong kong. At that time, everyone of my grandma's friend was critizing and teasing about her decision. Since everyone thought hong kong was a wealthy city, everyone was being selfish and focusing money and entertainment. Everyone who came to hong kong would also be influenced by the environment. As the time past, the fact have proved to everyone that my grandma was right and smart to have made her decision by that time.
To the different of everyone's thoughts, after a few years time my younger auntie and grandma's visa were approved and allowed to move hong kong as well. Also my grandpa, older auntie and my mum were really well behave and working so hard on their study and part time job. They worked so hard on everyday and saved the money for the family.
Finally the whole family could be living together. Everyone was working hard for their future. It was because all they wanted was working hard to attribute their happy and wealthy family.
In fact, every tiny change of the past could have made a big different to the current situation.
Now my grandparents are eight years old something, I could still see their love to each other. Eventhough sometimes they will have some fights with each others, still they are really appriciated to each others. I can realize all these things when I see they look each others in their eyes. I think they are the real lucky ones. I love my grandparents, they lovely and kind. Also I have say thanks for their effort when they are still young.
I am amazed by how my grandma's way of thinking is really open-minded! She told me that she really wanted to view the world when she was still young. Since she wa born in the countryside and she has chosen to leave home and tried her best to get an opportunity to stay and to study in the city by herself. She met my grandpa accidentally, and they fall in love with each other in the first sight. Then they have decided to get married to each other. At that time they had nothing but just thirty something Rmb. They worked hard together and believed in the same belief. My grandparents' living standard has started to improve, after my aunties and mum were born, eventhough they were not very rich, still they were very happy with what they had got at that time.
However, my grandma started to wish to move to somewhere else from China. At that time, everyone was critizing my grandma's decision, and so as my grandpa. Everyone thought my grandma was crazy and stupid to let my grandpa to go to hong kong, even my grandpa wasn't really happy to leave my grandma by himself. After a while, my mum and older auntie's visa were approved and being allowed to move to hong kong. Then my grandpa, older auntie and my mum all moved to hong kong. At that time, everyone of my grandma's friend was critizing and teasing about her decision. Since everyone thought hong kong was a wealthy city, everyone was being selfish and focusing money and entertainment. Everyone who came to hong kong would also be influenced by the environment. As the time past, the fact have proved to everyone that my grandma was right and smart to have made her decision by that time.
To the different of everyone's thoughts, after a few years time my younger auntie and grandma's visa were approved and allowed to move hong kong as well. Also my grandpa, older auntie and my mum were really well behave and working so hard on their study and part time job. They worked so hard on everyday and saved the money for the family.
Finally the whole family could be living together. Everyone was working hard for their future. It was because all they wanted was working hard to attribute their happy and wealthy family.
In fact, every tiny change of the past could have made a big different to the current situation.
Now my grandparents are eight years old something, I could still see their love to each other. Eventhough sometimes they will have some fights with each others, still they are really appriciated to each others. I can realize all these things when I see they look each others in their eyes. I think they are the real lucky ones. I love my grandparents, they lovely and kind. Also I have say thanks for their effort when they are still young.
Sunday 25 April 2010
Triangel
在英文裏triangle是三角形的意思,而Triangel是天使
作為一個天使,Triangel 並不美麗，臉上還長著點點雀斑，但這絲毫未能削弱大家，尤其是女生們對他的喜愛。或許，世上的偉大大都是誕生于這樣的平凡吧？
傳說中愛神有兩支箭，一支金箭，一支銀箭，金箭是用來幫助有緣份的人們，而銀箭則是專門用來破壞緣份的，於是愛神派出了一個天使來阻止銀箭，守護人與人之間的緣份。這個天使就是“愛之神”（Triangel）。
相傳在西元前二世紀的古羅馬，有一位善良的女孩和她的男朋友相愛，後來男孩被青蛙魔女勾引，魔法使他漸漸 地冷落了女孩。女孩整天坐在窗前哭泣，真情最終感動了上蒼，天上的眾神令仙鶴叼著這個玩偶——愛之神，放在她的床前，青蛙魔女終於露出原形逃走了，男孩又重新回到女孩的身邊。
這只來自義大利著名的手工玩偶“愛之神”在其本土深受喜愛。現在，義大利的女孩喜歡將這個愛之神放在自己的房間裏，讓她/他守護著自己。據說擁有這個 Triangel娃娃的人，就能找到和她最有緣分的愛人。只要把娃娃放在自己房間的任何一個地方，這份緣分就會隨之而來，永遠不離開你！
正因為Triangel的象徵意義，很多女孩不想自己去買這娃娃，雖然她們對Triangel喜愛至極。如果可能的話，在特殊的日子裏，由一個喜歡自己，而自己也喜歡的人作為禮物送來，會是一件讓人異常幸福的事。
Don't try to hard,the best things come when you least expect them to.
（不要著急，最好的總會在最不經意的時候出現。）
Maybe god wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one,so that when we finally meet the person,we will know how to be grateful.
（在遇到夢中人之前，上天也許會安排我們先遇到別人；在我們終於遇見心儀的人時 ，便應當心存感激。）
我們偶然相遇，沒有留下痕跡。
Thursday 22 April 2010
The future....
Everything is getting on track. As I have to start to decide the way of my future, and I will have to let my lawyer know about it soon. What a hard decision!! Be honest, I really wish to complete my degree in the University of Queensland. Time goes really fast. I have returned to Hong Kong for more than a year. Over this year, I have learned a lot and get to understand more about life. Things have been changed as well. Should I go on and continue on my original plan, which is going back to Australia and finish my degree in Australia?! Or should I choose my alternative choice, which is continued my study in Hong Kong of the degree in Bradford?! Or should I choose to go on my dream, which is study in England?! Either one of my plan is mostly depends on how my family situation. Sometimes, I really want to ask my father about his opinion and decision. This is not because I can't have a clue with my future,or I am not sure which is the best way for myself. I want to ask for his opinion is just because I want to know that has him ever consider about his daughter and his son. He seems to just concern about himself. He seems has never consider about me and my brother. Is that because he has never consider about us as his son and daughter?! Is that because no matter what our future will be that doesn't really matter him?!
I have learned to be independent and strong since I was 5. Started from the day of my mum had left me and my brother for 20 months, I have realized that I am the only one who can help myself for my own future. Also I have to consider to help my brother to do his best. I have being grown in a family with a lot of problems, which is so different to the other ordinary families. I have learned to be independent and know how to take care of my own study and future. Since I know that no one in this family can help me when I need help. Since I was young I really I wish I could have my parents who can help me and give me for some useful opinion when I need some advice.
Since I was young, I have been helping myself on everything about my study and future. Since I know my parents would never have time to care about it. In fact, I would be really happy with deciding my own future if I didn't have to care about my parents problems. As many people have asked me about why should I have to care about my parents' problems, since they are adult and they should be able to help themselves. However, the fact is that the others could never understand the real situation about my family.
Sometimes, I really hope my father can help me for some decisions or some problems. As the time past, I have realized this was really a ridiculous dream. Since he is so .....in which situation, I should be happy if he could be able to help himself. Sometimes, I would be really upset about his failure and his weakness of this personalities. I really hope to remind him and help him to get to understand his weakness over these years, However, I have found myself so helpless on that. On the other hand, maybe my brother and I could be happy to have such kind of father, so we could take him as our bad model. So then we can learn to be more successful in our lives
This may be the reason why I have learned to think about somethings and evaluate of the real situation. And learn to listen to everyone's words and evaluate the real situation, without just listen and believe on somethings that the others have told. I wish my father can learn to think and grow his logic in a better way. Since his logic has been causing his own failure over these years.
I wish I don't have to help my parents for anything, so that can prove me I have a really successful father and I really want to be proud of him. However, he is really disappointing me for almost all the time. Be honest, I have to say that he is really a smart and successful businessman. Since I was young, I have seen my parents been working and deal with many problems. Maybe that's why I have learned a lot from them on how to deal with problems, and I have also learned to know how to be better on dealing with the problems. Sometimes, I would be happy with learning all those, however, I would more be happy if I have never learned those from them. So my life would be a lot easier and simpler.
As I know how much my father has hated me over these days, since I have helped my mum. I didn't really want or mean to do anything bad to him. However, his actions really have made me to react in such way. And he has to know how to be responsible to his inappropriate actions, from taking his own consequences. As I know my mum is not a selfish or mean person, all her actions really have some reason behind. Perhaps she is not really good at presenting herself to the others, since she is really a straight forward person and sometimes she is being too honest to the others, and I know she is not a greedy person. She is really generous to everyone around her, however, she could be acting really strong to the others if she found the bad intention of the others. I have to say that she is really a smart person sometimes in dealing with the others. She can really see the others. I know she is really a careful person, so she just want to protect us and the family from the others' bad intention. However, she just acts too aggressive sometimes when she gets to know a person's intention is being not nice in some way. However, I have to admit that her actions could be inappropriate sometimes.
No matter how my parents and families have done anything in anyway, all I want to do is just help them to understand themselves better and get to learn more about how to do better. Since I believe that is what family should do. It is because family should always be understanding, and be able forgive and accept the others, and be able to help the others. We should always help each others out when they need some help. No matter how bad could I feel about their actions, still I really want to help them to understand their mistakes and help them to be better. That is just like how my mum has scold me for every little things that I have done inappropriately through the years. I may get upset sometimes, still I would be able to understand her later when I get to know her own intention is just being good for me. Also I will be appreciated for her effort, even her actions may not be the best for the situations sometimes. Still when I think back on her own intention, I can always forgive her and be able to understand her. I really happy and I think I am really lucky to have such kind of mother. So I can really learn the real problems and weakness of myself. Then I can keep continue to improve myself better and be more successful in my future.
As I know my mum has been really harsh for me and my bother since we were young, still I really have to say thanks for her. Since I have got to know that her actions have been helping us to grow in a better way and be more successful. I am happy for her way in teaching us, as I have been told from the others about how they proud of me and my bother for our way in doing things. Since I know that all our success is just because of my mum's effort over these years. Over these days on working at my mum's office, I have seen her acting in front of many different people and customers, I really have learned a lot from her. I really have to say that she is really a successful business woman in her business area. Since she is the only one who can handle all the things and support the whole families. I really proud of her. Also I really want to learn more from her and want to be successful like her, and learn how to be more successful from seeing my mum's mistakes on some areas.
Mother's day is coming soon, I really want to say thanks to her and do somethings for her to show my respect to her. Mummy I really love you. Indeed I really do love my mum and my family. As I know my brother is also paying his effort and working hard on his own future, I am really proud of him as well. At last, I want to cheer up for everyone who is working hard for their own future. As I know in the short while, everyone can see our result on our effort and hard working.
Cheer up.....nothing can be hard, except if we give up on ourselves.No matter how hard can the current situation can be, still the best is just yet to go. Lets work hard together and take our every minute count. As I always believe, the only happiness is that we can cherish whatever we can have on hand, and appreciate with everything and think in a positive way. No one can really judge anything....since the fact will prove us everything. We are working and acting for our own selves, we don't have to care about what the others have said and what the others think. Since we are the only one who can judge ourselves. Its so true that, no one can ever upset us but ourselves. So what my dad has been upsetting and angry for, its just because of his own self and how his way of thinking has trouble himself.....I really hope he can understand this fact. Hope he can be doing better in his life as well.....no matter what can the result be at the end of the court's judgment..... hope he can deeply understand what he has been doing over these years.....and hope he can learn his lesson.....Still he is always my father.....I will always try to forgive him and try my best to help him in a good way......good luck....
I have learned to be independent and strong since I was 5. Started from the day of my mum had left me and my brother for 20 months, I have realized that I am the only one who can help myself for my own future. Also I have to consider to help my brother to do his best. I have being grown in a family with a lot of problems, which is so different to the other ordinary families. I have learned to be independent and know how to take care of my own study and future. Since I know that no one in this family can help me when I need help. Since I was young I really I wish I could have my parents who can help me and give me for some useful opinion when I need some advice.
Since I was young, I have been helping myself on everything about my study and future. Since I know my parents would never have time to care about it. In fact, I would be really happy with deciding my own future if I didn't have to care about my parents problems. As many people have asked me about why should I have to care about my parents' problems, since they are adult and they should be able to help themselves. However, the fact is that the others could never understand the real situation about my family.
Sometimes, I really hope my father can help me for some decisions or some problems. As the time past, I have realized this was really a ridiculous dream. Since he is so .....in which situation, I should be happy if he could be able to help himself. Sometimes, I would be really upset about his failure and his weakness of this personalities. I really hope to remind him and help him to get to understand his weakness over these years, However, I have found myself so helpless on that. On the other hand, maybe my brother and I could be happy to have such kind of father, so we could take him as our bad model. So then we can learn to be more successful in our lives
This may be the reason why I have learned to think about somethings and evaluate of the real situation. And learn to listen to everyone's words and evaluate the real situation, without just listen and believe on somethings that the others have told. I wish my father can learn to think and grow his logic in a better way. Since his logic has been causing his own failure over these years.
I wish I don't have to help my parents for anything, so that can prove me I have a really successful father and I really want to be proud of him. However, he is really disappointing me for almost all the time. Be honest, I have to say that he is really a smart and successful businessman. Since I was young, I have seen my parents been working and deal with many problems. Maybe that's why I have learned a lot from them on how to deal with problems, and I have also learned to know how to be better on dealing with the problems. Sometimes, I would be happy with learning all those, however, I would more be happy if I have never learned those from them. So my life would be a lot easier and simpler.
As I know how much my father has hated me over these days, since I have helped my mum. I didn't really want or mean to do anything bad to him. However, his actions really have made me to react in such way. And he has to know how to be responsible to his inappropriate actions, from taking his own consequences. As I know my mum is not a selfish or mean person, all her actions really have some reason behind. Perhaps she is not really good at presenting herself to the others, since she is really a straight forward person and sometimes she is being too honest to the others, and I know she is not a greedy person. She is really generous to everyone around her, however, she could be acting really strong to the others if she found the bad intention of the others. I have to say that she is really a smart person sometimes in dealing with the others. She can really see the others. I know she is really a careful person, so she just want to protect us and the family from the others' bad intention. However, she just acts too aggressive sometimes when she gets to know a person's intention is being not nice in some way. However, I have to admit that her actions could be inappropriate sometimes.
No matter how my parents and families have done anything in anyway, all I want to do is just help them to understand themselves better and get to learn more about how to do better. Since I believe that is what family should do. It is because family should always be understanding, and be able forgive and accept the others, and be able to help the others. We should always help each others out when they need some help. No matter how bad could I feel about their actions, still I really want to help them to understand their mistakes and help them to be better. That is just like how my mum has scold me for every little things that I have done inappropriately through the years. I may get upset sometimes, still I would be able to understand her later when I get to know her own intention is just being good for me. Also I will be appreciated for her effort, even her actions may not be the best for the situations sometimes. Still when I think back on her own intention, I can always forgive her and be able to understand her. I really happy and I think I am really lucky to have such kind of mother. So I can really learn the real problems and weakness of myself. Then I can keep continue to improve myself better and be more successful in my future.
As I know my mum has been really harsh for me and my bother since we were young, still I really have to say thanks for her. Since I have got to know that her actions have been helping us to grow in a better way and be more successful. I am happy for her way in teaching us, as I have been told from the others about how they proud of me and my bother for our way in doing things. Since I know that all our success is just because of my mum's effort over these years. Over these days on working at my mum's office, I have seen her acting in front of many different people and customers, I really have learned a lot from her. I really have to say that she is really a successful business woman in her business area. Since she is the only one who can handle all the things and support the whole families. I really proud of her. Also I really want to learn more from her and want to be successful like her, and learn how to be more successful from seeing my mum's mistakes on some areas.
Mother's day is coming soon, I really want to say thanks to her and do somethings for her to show my respect to her. Mummy I really love you. Indeed I really do love my mum and my family. As I know my brother is also paying his effort and working hard on his own future, I am really proud of him as well. At last, I want to cheer up for everyone who is working hard for their own future. As I know in the short while, everyone can see our result on our effort and hard working.
Cheer up.....nothing can be hard, except if we give up on ourselves.No matter how hard can the current situation can be, still the best is just yet to go. Lets work hard together and take our every minute count. As I always believe, the only happiness is that we can cherish whatever we can have on hand, and appreciate with everything and think in a positive way. No one can really judge anything....since the fact will prove us everything. We are working and acting for our own selves, we don't have to care about what the others have said and what the others think. Since we are the only one who can judge ourselves. Its so true that, no one can ever upset us but ourselves. So what my dad has been upsetting and angry for, its just because of his own self and how his way of thinking has trouble himself.....I really hope he can understand this fact. Hope he can be doing better in his life as well.....no matter what can the result be at the end of the court's judgment..... hope he can deeply understand what he has been doing over these years.....and hope he can learn his lesson.....Still he is always my father.....I will always try to forgive him and try my best to help him in a good way......good luck....
Tuesday 20 April 2010
敲敲愛上你...............
最近喜歡上看一駒愛情劇「敲敲愛上你」。或許每個人都會為自己愛的人努力，是因為喜歡上一個人會為一個人擁有最大的勇氣、堅持、不顧一切的去付出。人一但清楚了解到自己喜歡的人是誰，便總會不由自主的為喜歡的人做出很多意想不到的事情。 而這一切一切都只是希望喜歡的人會有一天會明白和感受到自己的心意，一路以來的等待也只是希望等到喜歡的人被感動的一天出現。曾經以為兩個人的真心相愛是多麼的難能可貴，不過原來在真實的世界裏真心相愛，卻不及願意單方面付出所爭取回來的愛情來得偉大和感動！
人生永遠都沒有辦法知道自己喜歡的人會不會有一天真的愛上自己，可是這種未知數卻能叫人帶來意想不到的勇氣。不過當人漸漸成熟，便發現愛人之前，先必須要學會堅強，因為在愛情的路上難免會有跌跌碰碰的，愛情能令人受傷，令人勇敢，令人愚笨，令人聰明，令人傷痛，令人幸福，令人悲傷，令人喜悅.......這一切一切都只是因為真正的愛是身不由己的。愛與不愛，愛能愛久，愛多深，愛多堅持，也不是一個人能決定的！
沒有愛情的婚姻我還看得少嗎？破滅的愛情我們還未曾偶到過嗎？
人生還有很多我們可以掌握的等待我們呢！只想等待真正的愛情來臨前，請不要再驚動愛情吧！因為我相信我的堅強是為我帶來幸福的開始和原因！
人生永遠都沒有辦法知道自己喜歡的人會不會有一天真的愛上自己，可是這種未知數卻能叫人帶來意想不到的勇氣。不過當人漸漸成熟，便發現愛人之前，先必須要學會堅強，因為在愛情的路上難免會有跌跌碰碰的，愛情能令人受傷，令人勇敢，令人愚笨，令人聰明，令人傷痛，令人幸福，令人悲傷，令人喜悅.......這一切一切都只是因為真正的愛是身不由己的。愛與不愛，愛能愛久，愛多深，愛多堅持，也不是一個人能決定的！
沒有愛情的婚姻我還看得少嗎？破滅的愛情我們還未曾偶到過嗎？
人生還有很多我們可以掌握的等待我們呢！只想等待真正的愛情來臨前，請不要再驚動愛情吧！因為我相信我的堅強是為我帶來幸福的開始和原因！
Sunday 18 April 2010
原來......
1.一個人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風景，聽陌生的歌，然後在某個不經意的瞬間，你會發現，原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。
一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福，不是長生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃，想被愛的時候有人來愛你。
幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛情是燈，友情是影子，當燈滅了，你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最後可以給你力量的人。
爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。
我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛情，要么讓人成熟，要么讓人墮落。
爱情，要么让人成熟，要么让人堕落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜，大多數人的愛情，都是負重的。
举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7．我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中，人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人，用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人，再用一天的時間去愛上一個人，到最後呢，卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。
我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8．一個人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後，你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富，它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
一个人一生可以爱上很多的人，等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9．年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨著年齡的增長，終於領悟到愛一個人，就算用一輩子的時間，還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人，體諒這個人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10．當明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最後成為記憶裡不再重要的某一天，我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車裡，與相鄰列車交錯時，彷彿自己在前進的錯覺，而是我們真實的在成長，在這件事裡成了另一個自己。
当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，而是我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11．離開我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。
离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12．曾經擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬於自己的，不要放棄。已經失去的，留作回憶。
曾经拥有的，不要忘记。不能得到的，更要珍惜。属于自己的，不要放弃。已经失去的，留作回忆。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13．我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人，充滿變數，我於是後退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見真誠的感情。
我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离，这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人，充满变数，我于是后退一步，静静的看着，直到看见真诚的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14．男人的愛是俯視而生，而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山，那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
男人的爱是俯视而生，而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15．好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個人捨棄世界。
好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16．在自己面前，應該一直留有一個地方，獨自留在那裡。然後去愛。不知道是什麼，不知道是誰，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。
在自己面前，应该一直留有一个地方，独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么，不知道是谁，不知道如何去爱，也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情，也许永远都没有人。可是，这种等待，就是爱情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17．有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦？我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發現，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來日歲月，會讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時日一起成長。
有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦？我们总以为那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我们才发现，它一直都是很轻，很轻的。我们以为爱的很深，很深，来日岁月，会让你知道，它不过很浅，很浅。最深和最重的爱，必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18．在這個世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
在这个世界上，只有真正快乐的男人，才能带给女人真正的快乐。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19．女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果沒有感性，就要理性；如果沒有理性，就要有自知之明；如果連這個都沒有了，她只有不幸。
女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果没有感性，就要理性；如果没有理性，就要有自知之明；如果连这个都没有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20．一段不被接受的愛情，需要的不是傷心，而是時間，一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
21．我知道這世上有人在等我，儘管我不知道我在等誰。但是因為這樣，我每天都非常快樂。
我知道这世上有人在等我，尽管我不知道我在等谁。但是因为这样，我每天都非常快乐。
I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this.
22．一生至少該有一次，為了某個人而忘了自己，不求有結果，不求同行，不求曾經擁有，甚至不求你愛我。只求在我最美的年華里，遇到你。
一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。
In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.
23．我不覺得人的心智成熟是越來越寬容涵蓋，什麼都可以接受。相反，我覺得那應該是一個逐漸剔除的過程，知道自己最重要的是什麼，知道不重要的東西是什麼。而後，做一個簡單的人。
我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个简单的人。
I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man.
24．當你的心真的在痛，眼淚快要流下來的時候，那就趕快抬頭看看，這片曾經屬於我們的天空；當天依舊是那麼的廣闊，雲依舊那麼的瀟灑，那就不應該哭，因為我的離去，並沒有帶走你的世界。
当你的心真的在痛，眼泪快要流下来的时候，那就赶快抬头看看，这片曾经属于我们的天空；当天依旧是那么的广阔，云依旧那么的潇洒，那就不应该哭，因为我的离去，并没有带走你的世界。
When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and have a look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't tak eaway the world that belongs to you.
一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福，不是長生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃，想被愛的時候有人來愛你。
幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛情是燈，友情是影子，當燈滅了，你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最後可以給你力量的人。
爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。
我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛情，要么讓人成熟，要么讓人墮落。
爱情，要么让人成熟，要么让人堕落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜，大多數人的愛情，都是負重的。
举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7．我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中，人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人，用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人，再用一天的時間去愛上一個人，到最後呢，卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。
我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8．一個人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後，你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富，它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
一个人一生可以爱上很多的人，等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9．年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨著年齡的增長，終於領悟到愛一個人，就算用一輩子的時間，還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人，體諒這個人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10．當明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最後成為記憶裡不再重要的某一天，我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車裡，與相鄰列車交錯時，彷彿自己在前進的錯覺，而是我們真實的在成長，在這件事裡成了另一個自己。
当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，而是我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11．離開我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。
离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12．曾經擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬於自己的，不要放棄。已經失去的，留作回憶。
曾经拥有的，不要忘记。不能得到的，更要珍惜。属于自己的，不要放弃。已经失去的，留作回忆。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13．我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人，充滿變數，我於是後退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見真誠的感情。
我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离，这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人，充满变数，我于是后退一步，静静的看着，直到看见真诚的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14．男人的愛是俯視而生，而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山，那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
男人的爱是俯视而生，而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15．好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個人捨棄世界。
好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16．在自己面前，應該一直留有一個地方，獨自留在那裡。然後去愛。不知道是什麼，不知道是誰，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。
在自己面前，应该一直留有一个地方，独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么，不知道是谁，不知道如何去爱，也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情，也许永远都没有人。可是，这种等待，就是爱情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17．有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦？我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發現，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來日歲月，會讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時日一起成長。
有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦？我们总以为那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我们才发现，它一直都是很轻，很轻的。我们以为爱的很深，很深，来日岁月，会让你知道，它不过很浅，很浅。最深和最重的爱，必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18．在這個世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
在这个世界上，只有真正快乐的男人，才能带给女人真正的快乐。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19．女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果沒有感性，就要理性；如果沒有理性，就要有自知之明；如果連這個都沒有了，她只有不幸。
女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果没有感性，就要理性；如果没有理性，就要有自知之明；如果连这个都没有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20．一段不被接受的愛情，需要的不是傷心，而是時間，一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
21．我知道這世上有人在等我，儘管我不知道我在等誰。但是因為這樣，我每天都非常快樂。
我知道这世上有人在等我，尽管我不知道我在等谁。但是因为这样，我每天都非常快乐。
I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this.
22．一生至少該有一次，為了某個人而忘了自己，不求有結果，不求同行，不求曾經擁有，甚至不求你愛我。只求在我最美的年華里，遇到你。
一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。
In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.
23．我不覺得人的心智成熟是越來越寬容涵蓋，什麼都可以接受。相反，我覺得那應該是一個逐漸剔除的過程，知道自己最重要的是什麼，知道不重要的東西是什麼。而後，做一個簡單的人。
我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个简单的人。
I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man.
24．當你的心真的在痛，眼淚快要流下來的時候，那就趕快抬頭看看，這片曾經屬於我們的天空；當天依舊是那麼的廣闊，雲依舊那麼的瀟灑，那就不應該哭，因為我的離去，並沒有帶走你的世界。
当你的心真的在痛，眼泪快要流下来的时候，那就赶快抬头看看，这片曾经属于我们的天空；当天依旧是那么的广阔，云依旧那么的潇洒，那就不应该哭，因为我的离去，并没有带走你的世界。
When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and have a look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't tak eaway the world that belongs to you.
Friday 16 April 2010
Wednesday 14 April 2010
Time Flies....
Time goes really fast. Everything is changing, and nothing is staying the same anymore. Time can make two individuals to fall in love with each other, and time can make us realize more about what is right and wrong. Then time can also make us forget a person, so then it can also make us fall in love with the better one. This is just the cycle of everyone's life....No matter how stubborn a person is, still its hard to refuse to admit on those facts...espcially hard to stop making these changes....
After all...as the time past and when someone look backward of one's life, there is always so much to laugh at...
After all...as the time past and when someone look backward of one's life, there is always so much to laugh at...
Tuesday 13 April 2010
Casting....
On the other day, I have been asked by someone, who is the representative of TVB,for going on a casting of an advertisement....I wasn't looked good on that day, since I have just finished from work near my mum's office.....I wasn't really considering on going for it......Therefore, I just told him I was in a hurry and couldn't have time for a short casting.....More improtantly, I don't really believe in this kind of thing.....
Lucky day.....
What a lucky day for me!! Can't believe that!! Time really can prove everything!! I am so lucky to be in where I am!! Thanks for letting me know more and more. Thanks so much for that!!
Sunday 11 April 2010
So cool!
So cool! Can't believe our team could win all the games today! I think I have fallen in love with war game!! Haha!! So cool!! Love the feelings of playing war game!! Love the team work of playing war game!! Love everything of playing war game!! Haha!! Except the feelings when you get shot!!
What a good thing to try on your life though!! Really wanna do some more special things in my life while I am still young!! In the meanwhile, I can get well prepared for a relaxing life when I ge old in the future!!
What a good thing to try on your life though!! Really wanna do some more special things in my life while I am still young!! In the meanwhile, I can get well prepared for a relaxing life when I ge old in the future!!
Saturday 10 April 2010
My wish
Wish I can get in this job! Since this has been my dream for ages, even though this is not my first interest on what I want to do in my future! Hahaha! Because my dream is being a pilot! Still being a flight attendant will be fun and great too!! Hahaha! I will get well prepared for this interview though! Hope I can get in la! Anyway no matter I can get in or not, I can still have my plan for the future! Haha!
Friday 9 April 2010
Monday 5 April 2010
Sunday 4 April 2010
迪士尼...
由第一次去迪士尼，第二次到迪士尼，第三次，現在已經是第四次到迪士尼。每一次去的時候，我都有不同的體會，體會到對一個人的感情。我這樣說可能有一點奇怪。第一次到迪士尼是和他在情人節的時候去的，在那個時候我自己還沒有知道自己對他的是一份怎麼樣的感情，從那天起我開始發覺到我們之間的感情原來已經不只是友情。
第二次去迪士尼的時候，我開始知道自己其實真正愛的人是他。
第三次的時候我知道了自己其實還愛他，不過也該要放手。
到現在已經是去第四次迪士尼了，我今次發現我原來已經放下了對他的感情。
這一切意想不到的改變，看起來好像都很突然，別人也不會明白這些改變的原因，但別人不明白，不了解，是因為他們不會知道那些改變之間所發生的一切。別人不會明白我們之間的感情和感覺是很平常的。因為感情是兩個人之間的問題，別人跟本就永遠不能明白和了解的。
在這些日子來，說真的我對我所做的，說的都問心無愧。所以我跟本就不用向別人解釋，也不需要得到別人支持我是對或是錯的，因為愛情跟本就不能分對與錯，只有真和假而已吧!其實我就算把一切都說出，其實也沒有用，因為說話的人永遠都不是重點，重點跟本就是聽說話的人怎樣去把話了解明白。如果聽說話的人固持己見，那說話的人再說什麼也是沒用。
我只知道從前為他而偷偷留過的眼淚有多少，也相信永遠都不會有人會知道，也不會有人可能體會。我更不需要別人知道，體會。可是是因為現在我知道自己再也為他留不出眼淚了，眼淚也已經不在。我也不會為他感到生氣或不高興。
原本所有從前別人說的話和自己心裡想的，都及不上他的說話和行為能叫我心淡。最令我心淡的人只有一個。如果惟反諾言的人是有錯的話，我願意為自己所犯的錯而負責任。所以現在的一切也不就是最好的選擇，最少我們都活得比以前好。我也相信事情的真相會由時間來証明。所以不必煩惱，也不必想太多太複雜。反正我現在也不必為不必要的事情想太多。了解我的人就會明白，我也不需要為不了解我的人去煩惱，或是在意。可能有一天發現我不是你想像中那樣的時候，你便會明白我的感受。我的感受不是要別人覺得我怎麼....也不能令別人覺得我怎麼.....
不過我真的要感謝你給我所明白到的一切一切。感謝，你給我明白到一些連我自己也未曾想過的事情。因為我開始明白了原來你已經不是我想像中的那個人了，不過我希望不論怎樣，你快樂就可以了，你認為對的就可以了。因為我不會介意你現在對我的感覺、看法和一切。我只希望你的想法會令你快樂和自在。
第二次去迪士尼的時候，我開始知道自己其實真正愛的人是他。
第三次的時候我知道了自己其實還愛他，不過也該要放手。
到現在已經是去第四次迪士尼了，我今次發現我原來已經放下了對他的感情。
這一切意想不到的改變，看起來好像都很突然，別人也不會明白這些改變的原因，但別人不明白，不了解，是因為他們不會知道那些改變之間所發生的一切。別人不會明白我們之間的感情和感覺是很平常的。因為感情是兩個人之間的問題，別人跟本就永遠不能明白和了解的。
在這些日子來，說真的我對我所做的，說的都問心無愧。所以我跟本就不用向別人解釋，也不需要得到別人支持我是對或是錯的，因為愛情跟本就不能分對與錯，只有真和假而已吧!其實我就算把一切都說出，其實也沒有用，因為說話的人永遠都不是重點，重點跟本就是聽說話的人怎樣去把話了解明白。如果聽說話的人固持己見，那說話的人再說什麼也是沒用。
我只知道從前為他而偷偷留過的眼淚有多少，也相信永遠都不會有人會知道，也不會有人可能體會。我更不需要別人知道，體會。可是是因為現在我知道自己再也為他留不出眼淚了，眼淚也已經不在。我也不會為他感到生氣或不高興。
原本所有從前別人說的話和自己心裡想的，都及不上他的說話和行為能叫我心淡。最令我心淡的人只有一個。如果惟反諾言的人是有錯的話，我願意為自己所犯的錯而負責任。所以現在的一切也不就是最好的選擇，最少我們都活得比以前好。我也相信事情的真相會由時間來証明。所以不必煩惱，也不必想太多太複雜。反正我現在也不必為不必要的事情想太多。了解我的人就會明白，我也不需要為不了解我的人去煩惱，或是在意。可能有一天發現我不是你想像中那樣的時候，你便會明白我的感受。我的感受不是要別人覺得我怎麼....也不能令別人覺得我怎麼.....
不過我真的要感謝你給我所明白到的一切一切。感謝，你給我明白到一些連我自己也未曾想過的事情。因為我開始明白了原來你已經不是我想像中的那個人了，不過我希望不論怎樣，你快樂就可以了，你認為對的就可以了。因為我不會介意你現在對我的感覺、看法和一切。我只希望你的想法會令你快樂和自在。
Saturday 3 April 2010
Having fun.....hahaha
Wow! Finally I can have my fun time with my friends again, since the exams had finished and assignments were done! Haha I think I am obsessive in love with Disneyland now, even though I know the one in hong kong isn't really great!!! I think I really love to go, no matter how many times I have been there still feel exciting in going there!! It makes me feel like a magical world, going to Disney really make you feel like having a fair tale in your life!! Haha! Can't believe I wil be going to Disney twice a month!! Haha!
But I am really tired from yesterday! Haha we had six hours of cycling all around the island. Haha it was really fun!!!! Especially when I was riding a four-wheels bicycle!! Haha!!! It was because .....hahhahaha it's really funny though!!!!! However, all I can feel know is my sore muscle!!!! Hahaha anyway this is not a big matter though since I really had so much fun!!!
But I am really tired from yesterday! Haha we had six hours of cycling all around the island. Haha it was really fun!!!! Especially when I was riding a four-wheels bicycle!! Haha!!! It was because .....hahhahaha it's really funny though!!!!! However, all I can feel know is my sore muscle!!!! Hahaha anyway this is not a big matter though since I really had so much fun!!!
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