"Hello It's Me" - Mary J. Blige
Hello, it's me,
I've thought about us for a long, long time
Maybe I think too much but something's wrong
Something's here that doesn't last too long.
Maybe I shouldn't think of you as mine.
Seeing you,seeing anyone as much as I do you,
I take for granted that you're always there,
I take for granted that you just don't care.
Sometimes I can't help seeing all the way through,baby.
It's important to me
that you know you are free
Cause I never want to make you change for me, babe (don't change, don't change)
No, I wouldn't change you, change you for the world (don't change, don't change)
No, don't change, girl (don't change, don't change)
Stay as sweet as you are (don't change, don't change)
But one thing I want you to do is,
Think of me, think of me, yeah
You know I'd be with you if I could,
Come around and see you once in a while,
If you ever need a reason to smile,
I'd spend the night if you think I should.
It's important to me
that you know you are free
Cause I never want to make you change for me
And I'll come around and see you once in a while,
If you ever need a reason to smile,
I'd spend the night if you think I should.
Just don't change, girl (don't change, don't change)
Wednesday, 30 June 2010
雷諾瓦（Pierre Auguste Renoir）的名畫「小艾琳」（Mlle Irene Cahen dAnvers）
雷諾瓦（Pierre Auguste Renoir）的名畫「小艾琳」（Mlle Irene Cahen dAnvers）
Tuesday, 29 June 2010
教訓
當人慢慢長大，開始明白到世界上總有一些人就是喜歡利用別人。有時候，這些人很會懂得掩飾自己，把心中存有的機心隱藏得很好，借用表面看來有善的用意來討好別人，獲到別人的信任後便能從中得到自己所希望得到的目的。
其實一切都不能光看表面，凡事都須要我們去思考及判斷。人與人之間的信任不是從言談，説話間就可以建立得到的。行動比說話更重要。
從前的自己總是喜歡輕易信任別人，但當自己一次的一次被人利用，慢慢就得到了教訓。可惜的是人與人之間的信任就變得更難建立。
所以慢慢學會，當我發現身邊的人有懷有機心的時候，我便自然地遠離這種人。相反當我發現真心對我的人和朋友時，我便會好好珍惜。
人大了就更學會去用心的感受，而非單靠用眼睛去觀察，更不會單憑說話去相信別人。
我其實一直都很尊敬我的外祖父母，因為他們教導我們做人的道理，做人應該以德報德，以直報怨，也要學會飲水思源，還要做到施恩莫望報！
老子在道德經曾說，道可道，非常道，名可名，非常名...意思是指一切可以言說出來的道理並非一定是最有理的道理，正如一切出名的事物也非真正有名，最初萬物也是由無名起，只是隨著人類給予其名，而其名也只是因以人傳人的方式慢慢傳揚之後才給眾人而認識。那試問萬物初開，道理之理又從何以來呢？
所以最後也只能盡在不言中，因為時間能証明一切。
其實一切都不能光看表面，凡事都須要我們去思考及判斷。人與人之間的信任不是從言談，説話間就可以建立得到的。行動比說話更重要。
從前的自己總是喜歡輕易信任別人，但當自己一次的一次被人利用，慢慢就得到了教訓。可惜的是人與人之間的信任就變得更難建立。
所以慢慢學會，當我發現身邊的人有懷有機心的時候，我便自然地遠離這種人。相反當我發現真心對我的人和朋友時，我便會好好珍惜。
人大了就更學會去用心的感受，而非單靠用眼睛去觀察，更不會單憑說話去相信別人。
我其實一直都很尊敬我的外祖父母，因為他們教導我們做人的道理，做人應該以德報德，以直報怨，也要學會飲水思源，還要做到施恩莫望報！
老子在道德經曾說，道可道，非常道，名可名，非常名...意思是指一切可以言說出來的道理並非一定是最有理的道理，正如一切出名的事物也非真正有名，最初萬物也是由無名起，只是隨著人類給予其名，而其名也只是因以人傳人的方式慢慢傳揚之後才給眾人而認識。那試問萬物初開，道理之理又從何以來呢？
所以最後也只能盡在不言中，因為時間能証明一切。
Monday, 28 June 2010
改變
我就是喜歡不停改變的自己，有時候就是對自己有着沉悶的感覺。當我開始感覺沉悶，對自己的現狀況感到膩了之後，我總是有了想作出改變的想法。
我就是喜歡不一樣的自己，喜歡改變已習慣的事情。就好像當我長了一頭長髮久了，卻會突然把長髮剪短。當我感到厭惡了一個環境，卻有着想要離開，到一另一個環境接受新的挑戰。
可能是這個原因吧，我總很快便半途而廢。這個可能是大多數人應為的缺點，但其實也可以算是一種長處。因為當我開始發現自己正身處的環境存在一些不能改變的缺點或一些不對勁的時候，我便立刻想要改變自己的狀況，我就是不希望自己一直走下一條不對勁的路。如果要我為自己所作出錯誤的選擇而抱怨，我會寧願為自己為何不盡早結束錯誤而感到後悔。
我雖然喜歡改變，但我更喜歡一直改善的自己。因此無論是什麼的改變，都只會是令我變得更好的改變。天天都是新的一天。日子一天天的過，我卻一步步的成長，變得更成熟。
快樂與不快樂，其實都只是想法改變的區別。世界沒有絕對正確的事情，但事情卻存在被否定的可能性，這也就是像科學的理論一樣，科學家們會從觀察開始，然後假設理論，再嘗試從實驗中所得來的結果而去否定一個理論的可行性，當經過多次的假設和否定的過程之後，才會得到總結。有些成功的科學家能從一兩次的實驗就能判斷出總結和設立出有貢獻的理論，一般的科學家可能要花上一段很長的時間才能得到總結和理論，也有一些可能花一輩子的時間都找不到總結和理論。
我就是喜歡不一樣的自己，喜歡改變已習慣的事情。就好像當我長了一頭長髮久了，卻會突然把長髮剪短。當我感到厭惡了一個環境，卻有着想要離開，到一另一個環境接受新的挑戰。
可能是這個原因吧，我總很快便半途而廢。這個可能是大多數人應為的缺點，但其實也可以算是一種長處。因為當我開始發現自己正身處的環境存在一些不能改變的缺點或一些不對勁的時候，我便立刻想要改變自己的狀況，我就是不希望自己一直走下一條不對勁的路。如果要我為自己所作出錯誤的選擇而抱怨，我會寧願為自己為何不盡早結束錯誤而感到後悔。
我雖然喜歡改變，但我更喜歡一直改善的自己。因此無論是什麼的改變，都只會是令我變得更好的改變。天天都是新的一天。日子一天天的過，我卻一步步的成長，變得更成熟。
快樂與不快樂，其實都只是想法改變的區別。世界沒有絕對正確的事情，但事情卻存在被否定的可能性，這也就是像科學的理論一樣，科學家們會從觀察開始，然後假設理論，再嘗試從實驗中所得來的結果而去否定一個理論的可行性，當經過多次的假設和否定的過程之後，才會得到總結。有些成功的科學家能從一兩次的實驗就能判斷出總結和設立出有貢獻的理論，一般的科學家可能要花上一段很長的時間才能得到總結和理論，也有一些可能花一輩子的時間都找不到總結和理論。
Sunday, 27 June 2010
Changing
No one can avoid the changes to be happened in one's life. However, lives are always being colored up by different kind of changes. Perhaps, life could be flat and boring if everything keeps the same all the time.
Life is always being amazed not because of how a person could get control of one's future, but how unpredictable can someone's future be.
Yes, it is so true that an unpredictable future can cause us feeling so unsecured. However, if we are meant to work hard enough and to enjoy the present, then I believe there is nothing much to be worried.
More importantly, if a person can be confident enough to view every change as a better change, then I believe changes are not meant to be unsecured anymore. Since we know every change can only get us to be better.
Moreover, changes can only be appreciated if the consequences are meant to be affordable in someone's life. Therefore, we should be aware for the consequences before we are going to accept the up coming changes to be happened in our lives. Since we are the only person who can take responsibility for our own lives.
More or less, I am pretty happy with all the changes of my life at the moment. Maybe I am only happy with whatever changes could have happened in my life, because I am being over optimistic. Anyway, I love changes and I love the challenges which are given by all the changes in my life. Hahahahaha..... I think this way thinking is abit too incense and not easily adopted by the others.....so whatever .... I don't care....because this me.... And I am unique..... That's why I am called Monique...... Hahahahahahha..... What crazy girl I am......
Life is always being amazed not because of how a person could get control of one's future, but how unpredictable can someone's future be.
Yes, it is so true that an unpredictable future can cause us feeling so unsecured. However, if we are meant to work hard enough and to enjoy the present, then I believe there is nothing much to be worried.
More importantly, if a person can be confident enough to view every change as a better change, then I believe changes are not meant to be unsecured anymore. Since we know every change can only get us to be better.
Moreover, changes can only be appreciated if the consequences are meant to be affordable in someone's life. Therefore, we should be aware for the consequences before we are going to accept the up coming changes to be happened in our lives. Since we are the only person who can take responsibility for our own lives.
More or less, I am pretty happy with all the changes of my life at the moment. Maybe I am only happy with whatever changes could have happened in my life, because I am being over optimistic. Anyway, I love changes and I love the challenges which are given by all the changes in my life. Hahahahaha..... I think this way thinking is abit too incense and not easily adopted by the others.....so whatever .... I don't care....because this me.... And I am unique..... That's why I am called Monique...... Hahahahahahha..... What crazy girl I am......
Saturday, 26 June 2010
The day you went away
The Day You Went Away by M2M
VERSE 1
Well I wonder could it be
When I was dreaming 'bout you baby
You were dreaming of me
Call me crazy, call me blind
To still be suffering is stupid after all of this time
PRE-CHORUS 1
Did I lose my love to someone better
And does she love you like I do
I do, you know I really really do
CHORUS
Well hey
So much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there's only you
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
VERSE 2
I remember date and time
September twenty second
Sunday twenty five after nine
In the doorway with your case
No longer shouting at each other
There were tears on our faces
PRE-CHORUS 2
And we were letting go of something special
Something we'll never have again
I know, I guess I really really know
CHORUS
The day you went away
The day you went away
PRE-CHORUS 1
CHORUS
BRIDGE
Why do we never know what we've got 'til it's gone
How could I carry on
The day you went away
Cause I've been missing you so much I have to say
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
The day you went away
The day you went away
VERSE 1
Well I wonder could it be
When I was dreaming 'bout you baby
You were dreaming of me
Call me crazy, call me blind
To still be suffering is stupid after all of this time
PRE-CHORUS 1
Did I lose my love to someone better
And does she love you like I do
I do, you know I really really do
CHORUS
Well hey
So much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there's only you
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
VERSE 2
I remember date and time
September twenty second
Sunday twenty five after nine
In the doorway with your case
No longer shouting at each other
There were tears on our faces
PRE-CHORUS 2
And we were letting go of something special
Something we'll never have again
I know, I guess I really really know
CHORUS
The day you went away
The day you went away
PRE-CHORUS 1
CHORUS
BRIDGE
Why do we never know what we've got 'til it's gone
How could I carry on
The day you went away
Cause I've been missing you so much I have to say
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
The day you went away
The day you went away
Tuesday, 22 June 2010
yael naim - lonely
"Lonely"
Lyrics to Lonely :
You are not alone
I am here with you
Even when you're scared
I'll never leave you
Standing in a storm
Making it insane
Once again, I would try
To enchain you
But you open your eyes to the sky
and whisper
That you are so lonely
You are so alone
You're so alone
You're so lonely, so lonely
So I'm colouring my face
While I am here with you
Imagining the landscapes of your sorrow
Is it yellow or blue?
Colouring the sky and the trees
and the clouds and the moonlight
I'd coloured your heart
If you didn't
I did
Now you are so lonely
You are so alone
You're so alone
You're so lonely, so lonely
You are so alone
You're so
You're so lonely, so lonely
And I wish you could just find home
Mmm mmm
Lyrics to Lonely :
You are not alone
I am here with you
Even when you're scared
I'll never leave you
Standing in a storm
Making it insane
Once again, I would try
To enchain you
But you open your eyes to the sky
and whisper
That you are so lonely
You are so alone
You're so alone
You're so lonely, so lonely
So I'm colouring my face
While I am here with you
Imagining the landscapes of your sorrow
Is it yellow or blue?
Colouring the sky and the trees
and the clouds and the moonlight
I'd coloured your heart
If you didn't
I did
Now you are so lonely
You are so alone
You're so alone
You're so lonely, so lonely
You are so alone
You're so
You're so lonely, so lonely
And I wish you could just find home
Mmm mmm
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